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[–]Edogg0070 points
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Most of the time you don't know. You have to trust them. If a person is going to cheat then they will cheat. There is absolutely nothing you can do to stop someone from making the personal decision to become unfaithful. So try not to worry about it. The fastest way to end a relationship is with distrust.
Usually seeing them balls-deep or someone else balls-deep in them is a big hint, but it's also possible they just fell onto someone's dick/into someone's vagina.
[–]Timber_Beast0 points
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There is no sure-fire way to know, but there are some indications that may point to cheating. I'm going to leave each one with an alternate explanation or three.
Sudden decrease in sexual interest in partner (could also result from new medications or dosages, as well as other life changes)
Sudden increase in sexual interest in partner (could also result from new medications or dosages, as well as other life changes)
Unfounded accusations of cheating (could also be a sign of lost of trust, etc.)
A new tendency toward secretiveness (could also be a sign of addiction, alienation, etc.)
A new, unexplained tendency to spend time away from home (could also be a sign of addiction, alienation, etc.)
In short, look out for unexplained, major changes in behavior that could be signs of cheating (suddenly wanting to eat crescent rolls for every meal--probably not a sign of cheating, unless it's with the Pillsbury Doughboy). Also, please have some evidence before making accusations. Accusations of cheating can have a damaging effect on a relationship, and there's no need to inflict damage without cause.
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[–] Edogg007 0 points 22 points 22 points (+22|-0) ago
Most of the time you don't know. You have to trust them. If a person is going to cheat then they will cheat. There is absolutely nothing you can do to stop someone from making the personal decision to become unfaithful. So try not to worry about it. The fastest way to end a relationship is with distrust.
[–] usethemath [S] 0 points 4 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago
Distrust is the fastest way to end one indeed. There's just always a bug about it.
[–] BanalPhilosopher 0 points 8 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago
Usually seeing them balls-deep or someone else balls-deep in them is a big hint, but it's also possible they just fell onto someone's dick/into someone's vagina.
[–] usethemath [S] 0 points 4 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago
The old tripped, fell, landed on his dick bit, classic.
[–] Mr_Sir 0 points 7 points 7 points (+7|-0) ago
When they no longer look you in the eye
[–] usethemath [S] ago
The eyes, they tell everything.
[–] Mr_Sir 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
exactly
[–] Wmb102er 0 points 7 points 7 points (+7|-0) ago
Randomly talking about how bad cheating is seems to be a big tell.
[–] usethemath [S] 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
Just like answering an unasked question.
[–] pythagorean 0 points 5 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago
1) Her name is Niki
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[–] usethemath [S] 1 point 0 points 1 point (+1|-1) ago
That was only kisses.
[–] usethemath [S] 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
I'll steer clear of anyone by that name.
[–] Mr_Wolf 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Dam she really gets around
August 2011 <\3
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[–] TopShelfPrivilege 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
This is exactly how my wife and I handle things, it has definitely made things easier for us in the long run.
[–] usethemath [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Sounds like you got a keeper. My ex-wife and I were the same way, other things got in the way though.
[–] Timber_Beast 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago (edited ago)
There is no sure-fire way to know, but there are some indications that may point to cheating. I'm going to leave each one with an alternate explanation or three.
Sudden decrease in sexual interest in partner (could also result from new medications or dosages, as well as other life changes)
Sudden increase in sexual interest in partner (could also result from new medications or dosages, as well as other life changes)
Unfounded accusations of cheating (could also be a sign of lost of trust, etc.)
A new tendency toward secretiveness (could also be a sign of addiction, alienation, etc.)
A new, unexplained tendency to spend time away from home (could also be a sign of addiction, alienation, etc.)
In short, look out for unexplained, major changes in behavior that could be signs of cheating (suddenly wanting to eat crescent rolls for every meal--probably not a sign of cheating, unless it's with the Pillsbury Doughboy). Also, please have some evidence before making accusations. Accusations of cheating can have a damaging effect on a relationship, and there's no need to inflict damage without cause.
[–] usethemath [S] ago
That's some pretty well thought out reasoning.
[–] Timber_Beast 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Dear Abby taught me well.
[–] fleas 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
Taste test?
[–] usethemath [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Is it Pepsi?
[–] fleas 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
If the can fits in there there's probably something going on