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[–] Secret555 1 points 3 points (+4|-1) ago  (edited ago)

I don't think anything is specifically wrong with western women. But, my experience dating a shit ton of them is that I wish more would learn to cook. For some reason that skill seems to be disappearing and most couples I know it is the man that cooks. Would be nice to finally get a nice meal served to me instead of me doing all the work.

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[–] ohnellie 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

I feel for you. I had to teach my boyfriend how to cook pretty much everything, even stirfrys and instant pancakes. A lot of people are probably just insecure about cooking because their families didn't do it much. It's all about effort, though. Maybe more women are unwilling to learn?

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[–] Secret555 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

I think with Western women that cooking is seen as a domestic duty and to ward off the illusion of subservience they choose not to learn. Almost every man I know is the cook at home. Cleanliness can fall under the same ideology, my experience is that women tend to have messy bedrooms and messy washrooms way more than men. They tend to grow out of the messy stage when they are older but the cooking never seems to change. I really believe that women don't want the stigma of being labelled as domesticated.

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[–] Throwingtothewolves 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

Yeah. I'm sorry. :(

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[–] Secret555 1 points -1 points (+0|-1) ago 

Sorry for what? Life without crazies would be quite boring.

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[–] Havengul 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

Haha I know the feeling. I asked my girlfriend to help me cook by boiling milk for a sauce and she was like "WHAT HOW I DON'T KNOW HOW TO COOK!"

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[–] Secret555 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago  (edited ago)

That's funny. The worst is having to eat some of the garbage they make. Some girl asked me over for a home cooked meal. Watch her prepare it tried to give my input was told that she knew what she was doing. Overcooked pasta and a jar of Ragu poured over uncooked, hugely cubed vegetables. No spices or seasoning abd then loads my plate like I was an Italian family. It was god awful.

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[–] 7281266? 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

Explain.

Divorce culture, which leads to divided attention from the parents. Studies show absent fathers are linked with more promiscuous daughters.

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[–] ohnellie 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

I think our culture is teaching us to be entitled. We're being told that men should do everything for us and love us despite all of our flaws. Of course it's silly and perhaps a mirroring of how women were expected to idolize their husbands, but I can definitely see why women fall for it. We're told we can be mentally unstable, fat, and lazy-and that we deserve to be loved for it.

I think men are starting to get the same message, too. Degregation of society and all that.

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[–] Halstan 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

White men are fucked. I cook and she cleans. That seems to be the best system for this age.

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[–] vonHugenbuben 1 points 0 points (+1|-1) ago 

As opposed to...?

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[–] 7281085? 1 points 0 points (+1|-1) ago  (edited ago)

They're alright

What you suggest instead? Latinas?

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[–] Throwingtothewolves 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

Spain, Portugul, Central and south american are Western.

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[–] 7284063? 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

If you want to define it like that, sure.

I'm quite a fan of this model