I don't think the male gender is real. There is no distinictive male wardrobe and there are no male only hobbies or interests.
Masculinity is seen as this whole other thing just like atheism is seen as this whole other religion. Masculinity like atheism is simpley not having a gender in my opinion. Just like atheism is just about denying the belief that the universe was created.
Neil Degrasse tyson sums up atheist as religion succinctly
https://youtu.be/CzSMC5rWvos?t=2m54s
It's odd that the word atheist even exists. I don't play golf. Is there a word for non-golf players? Do non-golf players gather and stragtegize? Do non-skiers have a word and come together and talk about the fact that they don't skii?
Religion to most people isn't about just about whether or not god exists. Their religion is typically heavily tied to how they view life as a whole. Its the same thing with women. With women being a women is part of their soul. I get the sense that if a women was born blind and deaf and was told all her life that she was a man she'd know somewhere in the back of her head that she's a women.
Whereas I doubt I'd be able to tell if I was a man in the same situation any better then this blind black racist from that david chappelle skit.Which causes society to simply believe like they do with atheists that men must also have this elaborate self identity that deeply entreached in what they do and how they think.
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[–] eixan [S] 1 point 0 points 1 point (+1|-1) ago
A real identity always comes with a certain look . Is there any way to dress masculine without looking like a fucking tool? With women a dress is very very clearly feminine. With men though jean and t-shirts is pretty much all we got. What is any identity if it doesnt come with a uniform and consistent look? I mean the gangster identity for instance is very uniform. Its always sagging baggy jeans,large sneakers, gold chains,and tattoos. I wouldnt mean much if everyone we saw too many middle class white people wearing this kinda clothing like we see with the cross pollination going with male gendered clothing where women can wear tshirt and jeans. Women wear that shit all the time!