I'm just curious if other men's experiences match my own or if I am an outlier in this. There's a common narrative of prevelant sexual harrassment against women in all aspects of daily life, and an outrage towards it. However, in my little bubble of media and influences nothing is ever mentioned about the male experience. I am not a pretty man, but even I have experienced tons of this so I assume others do as well. I also assume it's much worse for extremely attractive men. At work I have had two girls, and a flamboyant guy on another occasion, stand behind me and rub my shoulders while I'm at my desk. Also at work a girl grinding herself on me in the elevator as her friends laugh. Lots of sexual innuendo and jokes. Outside of work and with alcohol/drugs it increases exponentially. Girls rubbing their butts on me. Grabbing me, a few times my crotch. Me being friendly but not showing interest, girls have tried to kiss me. The only one that I remember really bothering me a lot was a drunk girl I wasn't interested in straddling me at a party and licking the side of my face and trying to put her tongue in my ear. Another I remember a girl getting super pissed and making a scene at a party because I kept turning my head as she tried to kiss me more and more aggressively, and I kept trying to let her know I wasn't interested without embarrassing her or hurting her feelings. Still, for me I have never considered these things a big deal, and yes i admit flettering despite not being interested. I have just been thinking about it lately after reading about sexual harrassment against women and the outrage that follows. Is this common for you as well? What are some of your experiences?
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[–] wicketywahwah 0 points 6 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago
I actually have a pet peeve with this,putting aside that yes it happens and everyone laughs about it.Women have no idea how to grope! A bunch of times i have been in a club or event the women who have gone the grope have straight up slammed their hand into my balls no gentle feel or a cheeky brush just bam ive felt me some balls even though they exploded i still felt them. Mjölnir causes less damage
[–] Harkozey [S] 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
Ha, true. How to grope a man should be in sex ed. You could slap the hell out of a pens and it will bounce back mocking you, but lightly tap the balls wrong and there will be agony.