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[–] Goatinsheepsclothing ago 

RedSocks is right. I was never cool in high school and never went hooking up with random girls every week like the media and society say I should have. The hookups I have had pale in comparison to the sex I've had with girls I'm actually interested in. Sex for the sake of sex really is not that satisfying. I had the same feeling of wanting some sort of validation by proving to myself I could get girls like anyone else could. RedSocks was right in saying you should find a passion and work towards it. I've come to find the best way to solve some problems is to stop worrying about them. I stopped worrying about hookups and relationships, put time into bettering myself with a college and whatnot, and now I'm dating my childhood best friend who made that feeling of inadequacy disappear. Its better to be everything to one person than hardly a memory to everyone else.