Archived Coworker is subtly trying to assert his dominance over me (Advice)
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Archived Coworker is subtly trying to assert his dominance over me (Advice)
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[–] level_101 ago
Only take a note if it is worth doing. Otherwise, and you don't have to say it out loud.
Respond with "Thats cute".
Dont burn bridges if you dont have to. Depending on your industry it could be really useful to have a "good" reference in the future from an existing employee or maybe even a friend.
Some people just come off harsh and its easier to approach it with humor than anything else. If he continues, he may be trying to intimidate you out of success and make sure you feel too weak to compete. If that happens. Simply remember "Oh, Thats cute". Maybe even say it once and walk away.
Its not really offensive but it gets the point across.