I'm in my early 30s and have mostly only had sex with women I've dated a while. It's been mostly because I just don't enjoy sex like it seems everyone else does.
I can't keep an erection in a condom for more than a few minutes and when I was in college I would take horny goat weed to try, but it didn't do anything. I tried taking ZMA supplements, but that also didn't improve anything.
Without a condom I feel almost nothing. I get sensation for a bit but the more I go, the more wet they get and then it's like fucking mashed potatoes. They're all pretty tight, I can't get more than 2 fingers in any of them, and I use magnums because the regular size feels like a cock ring. So I can't say it's because I'm having sex with loose women.
I've thought about taking viagra but if I can avoid a condom that wouldn't even be needed so I don't think a 4hr hard-on would be my solution.
Any advice other than how to enjoy a lifetime of hand jobs?
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[–] fakeid8675309 [S] 2 points -2 points 0 points (+0|-2) ago
I appreciate the advice but the problem with your route is I have to take supplements forever and risk making my natural production nothing.
I had a friend that was a sex fiend and still jerked off a few times a day, when he hit 29 he said he had almost no drive and his teams doctor put him on some hormone mix that made him leaner and gain 20lbs. But he's stuck on it forever or he'll get worse than before he started.
I'm not impotent, it's just numb. I can feel topical sensation, like a hand, but a mouth or vagina is like fucking silk boxers. I can stay hard for hours but I can't climax without a lot of sensation, only found in a hand.
[–] WORF_MOTORBOATS_TROI 1 point -1 points 0 points (+0|-1) ago
Once you possess the prescription you can take it or not, it's up to you. You won't be given so much that it shuts down your natural production, that is a side effect of taking too much of different types of steroids for too long (which is why they do them in cycles now). The doctor can explain it to you better depending on what they prescribe.
You could try going the "of mice and men" route and wear a condom 24/7 that is filled with vaseline to keep your dick skin soft and sensitive