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[–] fakeid8675309 [S] 2 points -1 points (+1|-2) ago 

I wear the thinnest condoms I can find. I try to maintain long term relationships so we can switch from condoms to cuming inside.

I tried the skin type on Thursday but ended up taking it off just to fuck her longer. Without the condom I feel nothing and won't cum unless I'm bottoming out and grinding on her until my legs cramp or back gives out. Either way I've had sex maybe 1000 times in my life and mostly without a condom, but I've only been able to finish from sex maybe 3 times. Every other time, even with head, required her hands or mine.

I haven't found ANY women I can get a mental sexual connection with. They're all submissive and basically lie down or can do one thing I say at a time. But forget dirty talk or following instructions more than "roll over" and "ass up" while I hold their chest against the bed.

This is all why I've chosen to only have sex when I date and I can't have casual sex, I won't get off from them and I rarely meet someone I want to please that I haven't gotten to know pretty well.

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[–] Sosacms 1 point 1 point (+2|-1) ago 

Honestly sounds like you've trained your body with to much porn and jerking off.

You don't feel anything because sex has no value beyond what you can give yourself with a hand. Even sounds like you are wanting her to just behave more like a porn girl.

I usually don't finish with sex either. But that's because I don't really want to. I don't have sex for the orgasm, I can have orgasms alone. I have sex for all the intensity I can't have by myself.

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[–] fakeid8675309 [S] 2 points -1 points (+1|-2) ago 

You don't feel anything because sex has no value beyond what you can give yourself with a hand.

I've gone months without masturbating and usually go weeks before sex. I don't see how this has anything to do with physical sensation but I do agree that masturbation makes sex less fulfilling.