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[–] 17684719? ago 

I need help getting a girlfriend ASAP. Even if it's only a fling or a fuckbuddy, I NEED SOMETHING. I'm starting to lose my mind, I've been lonely and isolated for far too long, I need human warmth and intimacy, I need some touch and TLC. Please fucking help me, I need something that works, I will do what I can to change but I need some assurance that there will be some kind of payout to collect. I'm tired of going on wild goose chases for girls that aren't interested, I'm tired of trying to no avail, I'm tired of becoming despondent and wasting away in my room, please frens I beg of you, HELP ME.

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[–] 18046658? ago 

Once you have a fuckbuddy you’ll recognize it’s futility. Sex without passion and the spiritual bond of love is so lifeless it makes me ill thinking about it.

Form the bond. It’s worth the wait.

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[–] 18046675? ago 

This only really applies once you've experienced constant sex, though.

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[–] 17684721? ago 

you're desperate and every girl will know it

read the thread and better yourself

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[–] 17684720? ago 

Stop begging firstly, it's demeaning and does you no favours. Explain why exactly your so alone first, in honest terms.

As an aside, if you act this desperately around women you will automatically repulse them, women seek a combination of kindness, leadership and strength in a man. Get a grip and lay out your situation.

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[–] 17685341? ago 

I guess I'll start from early on, in elementary school ~20% of the entire school was white, the rest was mostly asian, latino, black, etc. So I had very little opportunity to naturally socialize in a healthy and meaningful way early on, which of course stunted my social no, I did not want to socialize with the "other" kids, I was openly doing roman salutes at this age without fully understanding what it "meant" . This later on transferred to middle and high school as the demographics were relatively consistent, and so I kept going through life never having advanced beyond a second graders level of social skills. It probably didn't help that I moved schools several time and was an aspie. Even while growing up, In hindsight, I had several opportunities to socialize and make friends/girlfriends, but I was totally unaware in almost all of them, I had a "girlfriend" once but that failed miserably shortly after. I've held a few job since leaving school but none of them ever stick for very long, and in public whenever I even SEE a girl that is attractive, I get hot and flustered, and so most times I'm rushing around with my eyes straight forward to avoid eye contact with anyone.

I've been like this for as long as I can remember, I feel so drained. And I having a sneaking suspicion that (((someone))) may have purposefully intended for me to be socially stunted, but I can't be sure. I've just been so isolated for so long, I feel like I've evolved into a different species, as if I sing a different song from all the other birds, as if my feather can't fly with theirs. I just want some kind of acceptance. In all honesty if this all keeps up I may find myself dead within a few short years, which I would rather not do.