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[–] 16925565? ago 

Because it pulls at your heart OP.

Sex is intimately intertwined with your desire to be fully and unconditionally loved and accepted perfectly.

To say no to sex often feels like to say no to the other thing as well.

The hard truth of life is that sex is empty and it's only value is in producing offspring or as an expression of earnest love towards another. Sex as pleasure is only satisfying for a short while and once you hit a certain age it will no longer be interesting, in fact it will probably become a burden.

My advice? Master your dick before it masters you, use your sexuality as a tool of love, and don't be enslaved by your desires. This is all very hard to do, but if you keep on your current path you will naturally experience a decrease in pleasure that your derive from sex and an increase of self-loathing.

Focus on building loving relationships with people around you (both men and women) and find that special someone with whom you can share your burden, have some babies while you're at it too.

Also, don't racemix, because it's adultery.