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[–] Warnos44 2 points 7 points (+9|-2) ago 

This is not necessarily true. Depends what the context of conversations are. If she shares important things with you and isn't superficial, the quantity of others doesn't matter. In fact, she's actually hanging out with the guy which indicates it's not a nothing burger.

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[–] TheTrigger 0 points 12 points (+12|-0) ago 

Pretty much. In those types of situations, I would simply back off a bit. If they noticed my absence, and made an effort to contact me, I'd take it as a good sign; if they didn't, I'd consider it a dodged bullet.

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[–] JohnGoodman 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

I’d say your pretty naive to believe that. If she has a need to constantly be validated by talking to dozens of guys all the time, then that shows you talk means absolutely nothing to her

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[–] Warnos44 ago 

I'd say that I'm actually a female gamer who started out on lineage 2, then went to Aion, then went to league of legends. I have had many male chat friends who will message me or request that I play with them in group. Out of all the years that I played I had a very few number who I actually cared about, but was never a cunt to others. Just because you speak to another person doesn't mean that you're flirting with them or that it's any thing other than team work. PvP players who don't suck ass are hard to find, and when you do, even if they're not you're best friend, you'll still play with them. Speaking to other people doesn't mean that the girl is seeking validation. I say that lightly knowing what most girls are (very insecure about themselves). I don't know why any one would be on tinder at all as far as I understand it's a hook up app. I've been married too long to be part of that. But in this case the guy says he considers her a good friend then feels like he means nothing to her, NOT that they're dating. So regardless of why she's on tinder, there isn't enough information provided except for the fact that she's actually spending real time with him outside of virtual contact, and that is significant.

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[–] WORF_MOTORBOATS_TROI 1 point 2 points (+3|-1) ago 

a nothing burger

Are you a faggot or just hillary clinton?

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[–] CobraStallone 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

At this point what difference does it make?

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[–] Warnos44 ago 

I'm a chick who has actual experience of online exchanges with guys whom I considered more important than shallow "hai....bye".

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[–] theshopper 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

You must be a communist faggot who cannot see nor understand red flags.

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[–] Warnos44 ago 

Totally.