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[–] SurfinMindWaves 3 points 43 points (+46|-3) ago 

This reminded me of a post I recently saw where a guy was trying to hook up with someone on tindr. When she said she didn't want to do hookups any more he basically calls her a whore for riding the cock carousel until she was worn out, saying these things while he is attempting to hookup with a complete stranger on his phone. Somehow pointing this out makes a woman a feminist hag, but what do you guys expect with such mixed messages being thrown at women from a very young age? Be the change you want to see, expect it from the others around you.

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[–] SweetChicken 0 points 35 points (+35|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Be the change you want to see, expect it from the others around you.

This from the mountain tops.

I have been sober now 9 months. I have been married 17 years and have two boys (16 & 11) and a girl (8). When I got married I cucked hard and placated to her every whim. Because of this I became soft and lazy and lost her respect due to me not being strong. I allowed our lives to be filled with degeneracy (pot, alcohol, porn, etc.) not speaking my mind about how I truly felt about gays and a myriad of other important topics, one of which being religion; all three of our children are not baptized and I regret it immensely. Now I never went full board and allowed others into the bedroom and that is probably why our marriage is still hanging on by a thread. She’s now 50lbs over weight and extremely unhappy and unhealthy.

When I made the decision to change it caused a lot of resentment and confusion. Actually, the only people who supported my decisions were other men. I vividly remember my mother’s words when I told her I had gone back to church for the first time in over 30!years. She said “I just worry you are giving up one addiction for another”. I couldn’t believe it. But now months later they have accepted it and my wife is finally making conscious decisions to better herself. Even lefty male friends of mine are starting to realize the error of their ways. Once they saw the positive changes in my life they immediately wanted a piece of it, asking if they could go work out with me etc. It’s going to be a long road for me and my wife but either way I know I am finally on the right path.

So in short, you are correct. Be the change you want to see, it is contagious in nature.

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[–] SurfinMindWaves 0 points 16 points (+16|-0) ago 

Bravo! But I also want to give a warning, that it doesn't always work out that way. Sometimes the people around you like their lifestyle and your changes really shine a light on the choices they are making and it can make them resent you for it. However, please don't let this detour you potential uplifters out there. Sometimes a seed is planted that will grow later, maybe you won't be there to see it. Sometimes people will delve deeper into their dysfunction to justify their actions to themselves, don't be detoured.

Thanks for sharing your positive story SweetChicken.

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[–] TheTrigger 0 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago 

Congrats, man. More faggots need to wake up and realize their potential. All men can be men; they just need to seize it. Went through a similar experience, to yours. Got married young, turned in to a soyboy faggot. Somewhere along the line, the redpills started flowing. These days, the wife and I bantz about the Jews and degenerate Muslims— and laugh about it, together, as a family. Never been physically stronger; never had a stronger faith, in a higher power— that one can only achieve, through years of introspection. Good times. The future is bright. Deus vult.

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[–] Peacethroughpower 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

Bro, that made me start tearing up. Bravo to you, never stop never lose focus

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[–] massiveprivilege 0 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago  (edited ago)

He was telling her nobody wants to settle down with a cock riding whore who is now 30+ has hit the wall and now when shes used dried up and no chad wants to dick her anymore suddenly she wants a nice beta cuck provider to drain him like a parasite she is. Once a whore always a whore. Pair bonding is impossible for her. She will always be searching for that better deal and you better believe she will be cheating every opportunity she gets. Not to mention 2,3 years down the road when she gets bored she will divorce rape him and take his house, his car and kids.

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[–] SurfinMindWaves 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

But this rule only works for women, and men who fuck as many woman as will say yes have no similar inclinations and don't cheat or dump their wives for a younger model at every opportunity? This guy is expecting a woman that he's never met to fuck him just for fun, suffer all the societal consequences including potential pregnancy, but have no contact ever again. How can you guys to continue to be so myopic and not consider all the other factors surrounding this phenomena?