[–] EllenPaoisamanbaby 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
It takes strength to love, but wisdom to know when it may be withheld.
[–] 8bCvYq2vpg 1 point 2 points 3 points (+3|-1) ago
You don't. Don't turn the other cheek. You'll only make yourself a willing victim.
[–] Himntor 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
If they hurt me by doing me wrong, then I try not to feel hurt by them, and instead hurt for them. It's in the same vein as what Jesus says on the cross, 'Forgive them, for they know not what they do.' He wasn't being hurt by them, He was hurting for them in their wrongdoing.
[–] fuck_communism 3 points 0 points 3 points (+3|-3) ago
Depends on how you define "hurt," and what the "hurt" was. Cheated? Dump 'em. Showed up five minutes late to dinner and didn't apologize enough? See a shrink to address your narcissism.