[–] CANCEL-CAT-FACTS 0 points 8 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago
You can forgive them. That is what it means to be human. If they continue to hurt you, then you can love them from afar. Good luck to you.
[–] jet_lag 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
This. There is an old saying "Absence makes the heart grow fonder." Its just that some people need a lot of absence for that to happen it may be a few days to cool off it may be that you keep them away for the rest of your life. Although I think since this question was posted to v/religion I think they mean on a grander scale then personal relationships. Like how do you love a people you feel have wronged you which is much simpler.
[–] pizza_mine 0 points 7 points 7 points (+7|-0) ago
I don't, I just don't hate them anymore. I got over it. There is no requirement to love everybody but for your own sanity and peace of mind, don't hate. Hate is a terrible thing.
[–] cherises [S] ago
God bless you ,A men
[–] Almightyzentaco 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Personally I believe hate is often justified, rational, and healthy. But you have to be careful that it doesn't consume you and become unhealthy. Often times forgiveness is a tool of the cruel and selfish to allow them to continue their abuses with impunity. I forgive family and friends. Everyone else will pay me what they owe.
[–] zxhbsa5200 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
Jesus told us to love our neighbors as ourselves, but I can't love people who hurt me before many times
[–] TerryB 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Odin says to slay those who have wronged you. Most heroic.
What you going to do?
[–] eeeegtgewg43 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
So is poop.
You have hate for a reason. Its a feature. Its what you do with these feelings thats important.