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[–] Swole_is_life 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

It's a valid question for a newbie and honestly I'm jealous that you have had such little experience with fatties that the answer isn't obvious. You're getting a lot of downvotes because most of us here have seen many, many hams "trying" to lose weight but only for attention or as a reason to eat more.

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[–] EarthquakesAreScary 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Yep. Part of the bitterness is having seen this happen again, and again, and again. Putting yourself out there to help people because they claim that they're "really" trying. It eventually just sounds like any addict talking about how going light on their dose today means that they're making a great change that's going to pay off tomorrow. Addicts going to addict, and you don't give them praise until they're actually clean.

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[–] cmor88 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

I don't get out much other than to go to work.