[–] shittycyclist 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Good to have you back, Lee.
[–] BadIdeaFactory 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
I remember your threads on the other site before the dark times. Just wanted to say hello again and semper somethingorother. Was a POG among POGs so I know how that can be and the horrors that lurk where BCP can't find them. Fuckers hiding behind rank or connections.
[–] BadIdeaFactory ago
I knew a PFC who got processed out for BCP failures, a LCpl who got separated for general shitbaggery, a Cpl who was a sick bay warrior until terminal, a Sgt who successfully dodged until EAS and a SSgt who looked like his cammies would burst any second but was able to stay in (or at least until I left). Didn't really see too much of the shiny side but it's no real surprise that they can somehow manage.
[–] Free2254 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
A little off topic, but I was diagnosed with cancer in USMC boot camp 2001, and had all kinds of bullshit I had to put up with as well. Although I was able to fight the system and stay in, I often found myself in the same shoes as you and had to listen to other Marines talk shit about how everyone is BMP was malingering. It's a hard pill to swallow knowing your one of the few fighting medical and getting lumped in with everyone else. One of the rants that people that know me have heard a few times, is how around town I'll see these fat fucking in uniform shopping or some other BS. It's disgusting enough looking at fat blobs, but then having to see them in uniform and now knowing they are getting disability... Guess I'll have a word or two with a few of them this month. On a side note, and I'm sure you got a good group of friends, but if you ever get down and out feel free to shoot me a PM.
[–] Prettypurplepatterns 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
I'm really sorry that this happened to you. On a side note, I'm still in high school and am really considering joining the marines. (I am aware of the challenge to join) Do you have any advice about joining, or care to share a shortened version of your experience. Or at at least any suggestions for somewhere I could go to learn about peoples experience? ANYTHING would be great. Thanks for posting!
First, get your contract set up with what you want. Don't go in under an open contract.
Second, remember that your job isn't guaranteed, only the job grouping. That means they can place you specifically in another job.
Next, you want to remind yourself that this is YOUR CHOICE and you WANTED to be in there. Some people can get bitter and get mad at other Marines, the Marine Corps itself, or the Drill Instructors, but nobody forced you to enlist. It was your choice, remember that. Stand by it, work hard to accomplish your goals.
Next, be your own medical advocate...no one else will be. I was hurt and had to still do work because none of the docs cared enough to pull me to the side. I really messed up my feet from it. Always keep a copy of your medical paperwork. It may become cumbersome but you will be glad you kept it.
Next, you're human, you'll make mistakes. Never take it personally when someone corrects you. If they directly insult you, don't take that personally, either.
Finally, and this is big, keep your ducks in a row and make sure you speak tactfully...then you can pretty much talk shit to anyone as long as you do it properly. For example, when you want to say, "It's in the fucking black and white" when referring to a rule or regulation, you can say, "To my understanding, it is X".
Thank you so much, was not expecting a reply. Definitely will remember this.
[–] pray_the_gay_away 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
Leelemon, you're my hero. Your presence is an honor to our community.
[–] Leelem0n [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
You are a flatterer.