[–] RedSocks157 [S] 0 points 13 points 13 points (+13|-0) ago
Thanks. There was a time when I probably would have, but I learned that while people might think less of you for saying what you think, they will think EVEN LESS of you if you apologize for it.
[–] MightBeADuck 0 points 14 points 14 points (+14|-0) ago
Kudos on standing up for yourself, and bonus points for calling it "that" nearly to its face. Hanging out with a ham in the group eventually leads to everyone stuck in its orbit as it grows desperate for attention and tries to control every fucking thing to make it about themselves.
[–] RedSocks157 [S] 0 points 12 points 12 points (+12|-0) ago
Thank you, it drives me nuts that being a slob is acceptable but calling someone a slob isn't. Hopefully that sack of lard doesn't hang out with us again.
[–] MightBeADuck 0 points 6 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago (edited ago)
Did OP edit the post? I don't see a reference to exercising anywhere.
(Edit: I didn't downvoat you BTW)
[–] RedSocks157 [S] 2 points 3 points 5 points (+5|-2) ago
I edited it before I ended up with 30 comments about how I didn't hate one particular fat mentioned in a single sentence enough, rather than actually talking about the story.
[–] DevilsMonkey 0 points 8 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago
This is why I'm slowly weaning my baby onto the idea of shitlording and planting the seeds for fat hate. You really only have two options: One, Train your SO to have a proper disdain for eatbeasts or Two, get a new SO that is already a shit lord/lady/whatever.
It sounds like due to your negligence it's already too late for option one.
[–] RedSocks157 [S] 1 point 4 points 5 points (+5|-1) ago
Hardly my negligence. This girl was her housemate for 2 years before I met my SO. My SO works out frequently, former XC runner and soccer player. But unfortunately in this situation, she is very nice and hates to see anyone have their feelings hurt. Even a fats fee fees.
[–] DevilsMonkey 0 points 5 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago
By negligence I mean how long have you been dating her and why have you not been wormtongue-ing fat hatred into her? She sounds like a great candidate for shitlady. If you've been with her for a while and she's not a shitlady then you have to look at the reason why? If it's because you haven't turned her to the dark side yet then that's on you.
Sorry it's harsh but just like the price of beauty is eternal vigilance the price of a good fat hating partner is constant subtle shitlording. Most people don't wake up one day hating fat people. From what I've seen it's usually a long processes of losing tolerance for them inconveniencing humans every step of the way; use that to your advantage next time. Intentionally get in line behind a slow moving lard ass with your SO when you're in a hurry. If she's pissed off about it she'll likely be more receptive or your criticism. Get in the small car with your SO and the smelly fat girl, stick them in the back seat together.
This ain't a fucking game. You're building a lifestyle here and cultivating a meaningful transition, this shit takes work!
[–] RedSocks157 [S] 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
If I cleared out my Jeep's trunk maybe! haha
[–] mstumblrinafupa 0 points 24 points 24 points (+24|-0) ago
Sounds like you need a shitlady. In any case, hope things work out, and good on you for no apologies.
[–] RedSocks157 [S] 0 points 29 points 29 points (+29|-0) ago
She's still pissed off, and it's ridiculous. I can't believe that me hurting someone's feelings is more important to her than that person's, you know, imminent death.
[–] BlackBetty 0 points 18 points 18 points (+18|-0) ago (edited ago)
POINTS, POINTS, POINTS.
This shit has got to end. We're not taking care of them. 70% of the population and these fucks want us 30% to take care of them. I'm already disabled. At least my caretaker and lift me up above his head (if I get sick somewhere, I want him to be able flip me over his shoulder and load me into a car if necessary). The lives of medical professionals are being destroyed everyday, because of career-ending injuries sustained at the hands of these hambeasts who think they are entitled to be carted around like sedated equestrians every time they get sick. It's got to stop. And it stops when this "normalization" of obesity and fatlove stops. It stops when people start respecting themselves again.
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[–] DankNinja 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
Try converting her into a shitlday. Let her know all the ways fats are a drain on society