That's what I'm starting into. Some of the things I'm thinking of doing:
apologizing to SO for not bringing it up sooner
apologizing to paramour for the same
restating the boundaries for clarity and a common starting point
listing what behaviors crossed the line
explaining this needs to stop or I won't be willing to continue
I'm generally a really laid back person. This is unfamiliar territory and it comes across as a bit harsh laying down the law like this. I tend to avoid confrontation.
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That's what I'm starting into. Some of the things I'm thinking of doing:
apologizing to SO for not bringing it up sooner
apologizing to paramour for the same
restating the boundaries for clarity and a common starting point
listing what behaviors crossed the line
explaining this needs to stop or I won't be willing to continue
I'm generally a really laid back person. This is unfamiliar territory and it comes across as a bit harsh laying down the law like this. I tend to avoid confrontation.
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