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That's what I'm starting into. Some of the things I'm thinking of doing:

  • apologizing to SO for not bringing it up sooner

  • apologizing to paramour for the same

  • restating the boundaries for clarity and a common starting point

  • listing what behaviors crossed the line

  • explaining this needs to stop or I won't be willing to continue

I'm generally a really laid back person. This is unfamiliar territory and it comes across as a bit harsh laying down the law like this. I tend to avoid confrontation.

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