[–] SilverBanana [S] ago
You think you are single because you are not desperate enough? And you are not desperate enough because you can jack off to porn from time to time?
Porn is not why you are single, man.
[–] un_salamandre 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Choosing sarcastic words can make almost any issue sound idiotic. What I will say is this: I feel a strong desire to be in a relationship with a woman, and I feel like that is lacking in my life. But every time that desire has bubbled up in me, porn has been there to say "there there, why go socialize when you can comfortably jack off from home". But note it's not sexual release I feel I'm lacking - as said, that has been satisfied by porn. What feel is missing is the relationship, the being close to a woman... And yes, had I not satisfied myself with porn, I might have been closer to that goal now.
[–] greycloud 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
that is because you were raised on lies that shame you for being self reliant. you have a much better relationship with yourself than many married people do. you have a much better relationship with yourself than many men who get laid all the time by different women do, but who are psychologically dependent on getting laid to feel good about themselves. porn is a device of liberation for men, which is why feminists oppose it.
look at nature. females (of any species) are responsible for reproduction, while males are their servants who assist in that reproduction. this is not limited to the animal kingdom.