I know this is responding to a comment from a while ago. But I was in my mid 20's when I figured out, "I'm an adult! I can make my life whatever I damned well please." Fatties like to ignore the part that it takes planning, work, and self control to make this real, however.
[–] Thinspiration ago
For sure! Determination and effort is earned. Sometime trial by fire(like when I learned not to touch the stove to see if it's hot).