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[–] odplocki ago  (edited ago)

Me and my wife were in relationship for 12 years before we decided to have one. So I too traveled the path of that kind of pressure, but now having a daughter, , I can't put it with words. It';s like discovering some kind of a drug , "man you've got to try this" .

People who are snarky and preachy about having kids, will continue to be that way even after you have them. They will be all preachy about their particular way of raising them, , so that pressure will stay.

I still don't think the bad world argument is valid, and while that stuff about poor areas is true, it vaporizes because we already established that having kids should be an individual choice.

Man youve got to ttry it, it's like discovering another universe. Best drug ever.