[–] BonerWizard 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
Quit being a bitch face you fucking queer. Just kidding did you grow up sheltered or were you always sensitive? I was really sensitive as a kid but in the environment I grew up in quickly molded me. If you could give us a little more background info I'm sure some people could shoot better tailored tips.
[–] MetalAegis 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
Don't be so critical of yourself and have more confidence, if that doesn't work then fight fire with fire and rebuff those insults or criticisms with some observations of your own.
[–] Iforgotmy_other_acct 0 points 9 points 9 points (+9|-0) ago
Ask yourself if there's any truth to it, and what you can do about it.
[–] frankenham ago
Yep, a lot of people will dismiss criticism when it reality there's some truth to it and should apply that to bettering yourself. What is it that people are saying negative things about you? Is there a pattern of what sort of things people say?
It can be tough to accept something negative about yourself because that's just not how we look at ourselves, but if several people have called you a douche there's a chance you might be a douche. If that's the case try to be objective and view your actions from the view of somebody else and ask yourself if you'd think that person's acting like a douche. Then in return change your behavior to something that is more likable.
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[–] draco_nite [S] 0 points 6 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago
I'm expecting all sorts of abuse right now, so I doubt it.
[–] ThisMachineKills 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
I always find it easiest to view things as if they're happier to a 3rd party.
Like think every day, if I were reading this in a book or watching it in a movie, would I care about what was happening. So if someone says something negative about me, I'd just be like "well that is certainly something, but I'm going to work on resolving the main plot."