[–] septopus 2 points -1 points 1 point (+1|-2) ago
Said the sociopath that I bet will reply every time I reply. You should go google this subject. That way at least you can fake understanding human behavior. It will help you exist a bit longer as a sociopath.
I cant guess what dumb ass thing you will say next. Perhaps you will try to troll me into revealing some line item about myself that will allow you to doxx me. Or perhaps you will just keep saying 'thats what the cheater said'.
My only regret is not banging yer momma.
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[–] septopus ago
I am sure in your head that is a sappy come back. Lol.
Here is the reality... this topic eats you up inside and causes you emotional stress. 70%+ of married people end up cheating. So I can pretty much bank on your suffering. I am torn between wanting for your happiness due to my personal desires for humanity and that bit of spite towards shitty people we find hard to suppress. I can take comfort in it not being me who hurts you I guess. May your pain be your own and not shared.
Lets go back to the original post for a moment... When someone wrongs you it is best to remain calm, cool, and collected. If its over divest emotionally, or at least pretend to. Why? Because the posted actions can lead to legal ramifications first off. Even if you get off you will spend time and money in court, time and money in this case way from her children. Next, think of the child and their future. This kinda shit will scare a kid emotionally. Its an act of violence and insanity. It also will alienate the father, and this is shown to cause long term damage to people. Alienation leads to less financial and emotional support. Lastly, who would ever get involved with someone who would lash out like this? How do you know this is their only trigger for such a melt down? And would you hire someone who did this? When break ups happen for any reason, its best to treat the situation as if you are still in love with them, or at least still love them, but you cant be with them and end it like a business relationship. One should remain stoic and cool. For the kids, for yourself (embracing rage really only makes you angrier, and you tarnish your own reputation), and even for the person who wrong you. These are things rational, reasonable, and thoughtful people do and consider. They serve to minimize suffering for all involved. If divorce is the final answer, it will make it easier to come to agreements and end the battles. It will allow for friendship after the fact.
I grow very attached to people and dislike ends to connections to people. I've managed to remain close friends with many of my ex's, and recycled many of them also. I never stop loving them. I've hooked up a few of them with my friends and remained supportive even when relationships have ended. Their happiness is important to me even if I am not banging them. The few times where I faltered from this I feel deep regrets about.
If you act the way you have stated you do here you will be trusted by few in reality. You will be seen as a security risk. As unstable. You will also be left with a much smaller social circle, which can limit your over all happiness and economic opportunity. It is ok to be hurt. It is ok to draw that line and end a relationship based on any metric you have laid out. It's not ok, and will hurt you if you fail to act like a human being of honor in the face of your pain.