[–] septopus 2 points -1 points 1 point (+1|-2) ago
Yeah, see, life is a bit more complex than that. Shit happens for various reasons; and sometimes you love more than one person, or you are in lust, etc...
It always amuses me that selfish shitheads that would throw people away over cheating try to call other people sociopaths. And your statements that you would help ruin someone's otherwise happy existence over this line item? That is the behavior of someone who has no empathy; a sociopath. Could be fun to cause someone suffering? Yeah, you are a scumbag.
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[–] septopus 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
How about this... Spend the rest of the day googling why people cheat and exploring the subject from the point of view not your own. Divorce yourself from your anger and jealousy for a moment and read, research and so forth.
In my life I have seen some really great relationships and happy families torn apart because people are so ready to murder people over infidelity. I'm in my mid 40s. I watched this happen to the parents of my friends as a teenager, and over the years have seen it happen to some of my friends. Its the kinda heart wrenching shit that gets into your soft spots and rips them out like a draino enema. I have seen other relationships where people have cheated and they have not allowed it to destroy their lives and remain happy.
Your stated actions could cause a kid to not go to collage, and destroy the relationship they have with both parents. Kids dont just blame the cheater, they take that shit out on the person cheated on just as viciously. People go into debt on both sides, and become angry and bitter. You have stated an action that brings misery to others. If you are not a sociopath, if you have empathy, research and get the otherside you narrow minded fuck.
[–] septopus 2 points -1 points 1 point (+1|-2) ago
That has to come from someone who really does not understand human psychology or the human experience at all. Really, it's not that simple.
Sorry, no. A selfish person wants to own someone and will throw them away because they may have shared something intimate with another. You think its selfish because in your head someone took something from you.
People like are easy to spot. They are bitter angry pieces of shit who one avoids as a matter of course.
Reality; study from 1991 saw that 70%+ of married peopled cheated. Your unrealistic view is why people ruin great things over trite petty things.
You are a sociopath. You would actively seek to hurt someone because you cant stand cheaters. No consideration of the happiness destroyed all around. That is the definition of evil; those things that destroy happiness and serve no greater good. You are as I said a piece of shit, please die in a fire.