[–] trap_queen 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
wtf does that even mean? like being a thin person is something you can "pass" as lmao
[–] PinkXenomorph ago
...so, my not wanting to ever put on weight because my joints are already fragile is 'internalized fat phobia'? Really. And here I thought it was just common sense not to want to stress my structurally unstable, dislocation-prone joints. Instead, I should eat myself to whale-status, increase my pain and hate the way I look so the whales of the world won't be threatened by me.
I'd rather skin myself.
Jesus, how can people like this exist. That's what I can't figure out. How in fuck do they get like this.
[–] uvulectomy ago
This is the result of a couple decades worth of coddling, participation medals, never teaching personal responsibility, telling kids they're perfect no matter what they do, making sure everything is "fair", sabotaging meritocracy in everything, and basically putting personal feelings above literally everything else.
Because of that, we have an entire generation of whiny, entitled, self-absorbet twats who think the world revolves around them, because they never heard the word "no" growing up, and think everyone should cater to them. Feelz > Realz.
Basically, we have a generation full of Eric Cartmans running around.
[–] Algermas 0 points 5 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago (edited ago)
My internalized fatphobia is what guarantees that, no matter what, I will never be a fat fuck. My life could fall apart tomorrow but I would still take solace in the fact that im not a ham.
Fatphobia is no different from rotten meat phobia. It's a healthy thing to have because rotten meat is fucking bad for you. As is being a fatty.
[–] bisexualforviolins 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
Will I someday also be fat enough to encounter fatphobia coming from others as well as from myself? Probably. But I'm alright with that.
WHAT THE FUCK? Just give up on life why don't you. Just fuck it. Getting fat is apparently fucking inevitable.
...there's still going to be some days that I'll look down at my super cute squishy tum and want to hide it
First off, you should. You should want to hide it. Second, what are you fucking five? SUPER CUTE SQUISHY TUM. OMG STOP.
[–] Carsandsarcasm 0 points 4 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago
This is so frustrating. I don't understand this mindset that the fat gain is inevitable and the solution to feeling bad about that is to alter one's perception. It's the opposite of logic. All these articles talk about hating parts of their body, but getting over that. That is not how a rational person deals with such a problem. When I dislike a part of me, I make an effort to change it. They know fat looks terrible, they know. The denial is unbelievable.
[–] droopy2525 ago
"After leaving home I started eating like shit, so I gained weight. After some denial about the cause, I decided to make myself more of a complete blob and try to make people congratulate me"