[–] BigBadWolf 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago (edited ago)
If she became healthy and lost weight, then he wouldn't want her any more, which isn't love to begin with.
If my wife became obese and I didn't find her attractive anymore I would probably leave. I don't think that means I don't love her. It just means appearance is important to me as well as a personal connection.
If he only finds fat chicks attractive and would leave her if she didn't fit that profile anymore then I don't think the relationship is any more of a sham. It's fucking up and disgusting and I'm abhorred that someone would encourage fatness like that - but I don't think it necessarily has to undermine the relationship.