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[–] sinsaint 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Everything I've ever said about someone was said objectively, usually because of some kind of decision on my part on how they would influence something.

Like if a guy was impulsive, or was an asshole. Usually, I'll tell them what I said about them to their face at a later time.

Doing anything out of spite just seems like a waste of time and energy, including talking bad about people. When I do it, it's to accomplish something or to prevent a future problem. Almost everything I've said about someone is already known to those people, and they expect both honesty and respect out of me. I'm also pretty quick to praise someone for the good they do, and they like the balanced honesty.

....Except about my mother. She would probably hunt me down and kill me for some of the things I have said about her.