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[–] DietCokehead1 0 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago 

Make the blowjobs extra-sloppy

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[–] OneTrueCube 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

Communication is literally the most important thing.

Both people should be enjoying themselves, and if one party has an problem or wants to do something particular, they need to be able to tell their partner without it being a huge ordeal.

I know that my situation could be much improved via more communication.

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[–] SuperClever [S] 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

this is so true, and super important. a lack of communication can very easily turn something that should be fun and awesome into a bad experience. plus, it's pretty sexy to have someone tell you exactly what they want/don't want.

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[–] crankypants15 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

Many lubes stain. You're gonna have to wash that sheet.

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[–] DietCokehead1 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

Keep your fingernails VERY short if you're going to be doing any sort of fingering.

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[–] SuperClever [S] 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

YES.

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[–] Deathchild95 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago  (edited ago)

When you are riding cowgirl really get into it. Ride like your life depended on it. Don't make me do the work from the bottom.

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[–] SuperClever [S] 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago  (edited ago)

interesting. ok, my one response to this is that I feel like cowgirl is really really tiring. like, more tiring than other positions. there's alot of leg movement that goes on. so to get into it like that is short lived.

AND, when the dude's on top I gotta put a little bit of work in too. so I totally get what you're saying, I just don't feel too too bad about it.

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[–] another_one_gonewild 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Coconut oil. It's one of the best lubes I've ever found, and it's a totally mundane item you can find in grocery stores. Awesome!

Remember that the clitoris is a tiny dick. No, it's not like a tiny dick, it is a tiny dick. It's made from the same bundle of nervous tissue, it just never gets very big without the addition of testosterone. It'll even get hard and expand a little when she's aroused! Run your tongue along the underside just like she does with you during a blowjob - it drives mine nuts.

When going down on a woman - many guys tend to do the "lamprey eel" thing and latch on to a specific point. Don't do that. If she's rocking her hips, it's because she's trying to change the angle/position where you contact. Instead of latching on to her, try to keep your position constant relative to the bed. This way she can grind against your face and position herself in whatever way works best. Remember that suction feels really good, so learn to breathe through your nose while using your mouth to continue pulling on that clitoris. If your tongue gets tired after a while, take a break and use your fingers - now that your mouth is free, talk dirty with her about how things are going!

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[–] SuperClever [S] 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Personally, I wish sometimes the other person would have a good feel for when to change positions, or just change things up at all. Granted, I could do that too. But to just be aware of when the current position is getting stale.

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[–] 1Dixie-Gent ago 

Openness...no secrets...don't hold back, share your every desire no matter what it is. If you're not comfortable with sharing these things with your partner, you're either with the wrong partner....or you have hangups that need to be resolved. When you reach a level of trust and intimacy that you can do this freely, sex becomes almost spiritual...

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