But I notice more and more this mindset of witchhunting, hive minded anger, without any solution but to ban users (Not in Particular @She but also many, many others).
I think you're going to find that /u/She has been more than just the innocent, did absolutely nothing and bears no culpability in anything victim of a group of people who all for no apparent reason woke up one day and decided to attack her.
She may compare herself to Gandhi, but Gandhi She is not.
And if there's anyone willing to tear things apart rather than build them up, it's a person who says, paraphrased, 'Fuck being a default, as long as I'm still in charge.'
[–] HitlerIsBlack ago
It's easier, you can knock down a house in a day, takes a week or more to build one.
[–] ThisWeirdIndividual ago (edited ago)
Creation is thinking about something worthwhile ( done by gathering and organizing mental resources, analysis of memorized datas and concepts, that all are already results of precious creation(s) ), the gathering of resources (themselves result(s) of previous creation(s), gathered using the results of previous creations etc ), the organization of said resources in to an orderly configuration meant to lead to a precise goal.
Destruction is the disorganization of an orderly construction.
One asks for much, much more work than the other.This is literally, the most fundamental law of the Universe and why everything is doomed to disappear.
Information vs entropy.
I used to be quite defensive and i started arguements when there was none. as in i let my insecurities guide me, and therefore i did not listen to what was actually being said, but instead imagined what the meaning was. when i realized that i am not that important to strangers on the internet, it helped me have a constructive mindset when i see things i do not agree with. ive learnt that everyone is intitled to their opinion and usually they have a good reason for saying what they are saying, even though it might seem ignorant to some... also i can not change anyone or anything except myself.
Short answer: destroying is easy, creating is hard.
Now I did find one thing interesting. You asked basicly how to turn anger into motivation. It needs work and most people don't see that they need to do this work until things are going south.
When I was battling with depression I was extremely angry at first. I've tried to supress that anger and eventually it lead to losing all motivation. During group therapy that I've eventually attended we've done an excercise that thought me one important thing: anger and motivation come from the same place. Getting rid of anger is a wrong approach. It's something we need. But what we have to learn thruout our whole life is how to make this emotion lead to constructive action rather than burn out. I guess depending on personality for some it might be easier for others might be harder. I personally find this hard and while I'm not as angry as I used to be, I haven't rebuild my motivation the way I would like it to be. One thing that helped me for sure in keeping certain acceptable status quo is gaming. As a perfectionist I need to learn how to let go yet still move forward. While still far from perfect, I am in much better place than 10 years ago.
Enough about me ^^ Can we make people understand the issue? I really know. I'm afraid people need to realize that for themselves. Unfortunately, if someone doesn't feel their actions are harmful to themselves there is no force on earth that can make them change that. Simply because change is hard work and one needs really strong reasons in order to start on that path. Even when one realizes that they need to change it's still easier to not do anything.
[–] Nipsuffern ago
Entropy my friend, entropy -lack of order or predictability; gradual decline into disorder This gradual decline happens to everything; the human body, Saturday night live, Reddit, etc. But our jobs as the good people of Voat is to slow that decline as best as we can
[–] 1868593? ago
In Voat I think the problem is the hate communities.
But the reason why people are more angry is because they let their emotions control them. And hate is easy as it's most people's reaction to failure, and addictive.
I think that the way to solve this is to stop taking things so seriously, and become more calm and rational.