[–] Wheatstone ago
This is the playbook she was using!
https://files.catbox.moe/87moyx.pdf
They are misery snorting scum that gets off on abusing people. Your better off away from her.
[–] nougat_hater [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
was gonna write another post about the brreakup, the general gist i asked her to clean up after herself. Epic meltdown ensued
[–] Diggernicks 1 point -1 points 0 points (+0|-1) ago
Simple solution.
Do not enter into binding legal contracts which only favor women.
You christ cuck tards.
[–] jackfraser ago
Rough times dude.
The two things I try to remember to keep me sane in my own relationship, which has its problems, are:
Since your woman is just an overgrown teenager, you need to know that subconsciously she is always seeking the authority figure, and wants you to find a way to be that while also not falling into the poisoned well of demonized figures from the past. In other words, she wants you to be as authoritative in her life as the bad husbands of a hundred years ago were while being 100% convinced you’re nothing like that. Amused confidence and agree-and-amplify are the best techniques toward portraying this image.
OP, in your next long term relationship, you gotta set that tone from the start.
Somewhere between these two views on women lies the way that will give you the sanity you need to step back and deal with them as they are, not as how they have been portrayed to you. You know deep down they’re not the same as men, that you cannot expect the same reasoning process or the same conclusions given the same fundamentals. Instead, you need to learn how they really approach things - with consensus, optics, etc as primary concerns - and take advantage of that.
This would all be easier, of course, if you started with a wife that shared your ideological precepts. Unfortunately, we have gone from being a society that literally had tremendous structures just to produce well-raised women like that (churches, etc) to a society that raises women to be the opposite of that on purpose.
[–] Deshy ago
Shucks, narcissists do hate honesty, they also hate accountability and taking responsibility, it’s typical Princess syndrome and is utterly exhausting, draining and a waste of time.
[–] nougat_hater [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
yes it be, its like something clicked in my brain over time, what the fuck am i doing in this? Why should i be with someone who gives zero fucks about me