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[–] daskapitalist 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

I'll try to give you a serious response since based on your comments it sounds like you're asking this in good faith.

Women are typically less risk tolerant than men, and also far more focused on their social in-group than men who're typically more individualistic. This manifests in a couple of ways and leads to women often being found:

1) Clubbing with their BFFs. Do not waste your time on this. They're all young, dumb, looking for attention, and not looking for a relationship (think of it as the real world equivalent of instagram THOTs who just want likes without commitment).

2) Church. This tends to skew a bit older and more mature. If you're religious it's an option.

3) Already at home with babies. They're off the market and rarely leave the house for social gatherings because Little Timmy was never raised well enough to be taken out in public without flipping out within fifteen minutes.

4) At private social events. Being less risk tolerant than men, women are less likely to drop into a random event to make friends (whether that's a HAM radio meeting or a new cigar lounge). To gain access to these private events acquire some basic social skills if you dont already have them, pickup some approachable hobbies to talk about, and take up your friends' invitations to go do stuff. If you're an enjoyable conversationalist, those invitations tend to snowball. E.g. if I'm talking with new people I'll bring up some of my relatively approachable hobbies like winemaking, hiking, and ballroom dancing. Knowing what a space marine is or how to leverage temperature inversions to increase transmission range...not so much. At least not until you know they share a niche interest.

5) Staying at home with their cats and white wine wondering why they cant find no man. These typically get fat from inactivity in short order, and also comprise a hefty portion of the population.

6) At very girly activities. Girls day at the spa, yoga class, etc. Probably not your thing.

If your goal is to "get da gurls" rather than simple curiosity as to why your Warhammer 40k convention is a sausage fest, try the following:

1) Acquire some interesting hobbies that are relatively approachable.

2) The gym is now your part time job.

3) Take up friends on social invitations ("Hey, we're grilling out this weekend, want to come over?")

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[–] MrHaHaHaaa ago 

A number of my women friends attend events that are exclusively female, 'ladies who lunch', 'ladies who yoga', 'ladies who play sport'. If you are male you would never be invited, if you are a man with no women friends you wouldn't even know they existed!

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[–] spirit1977 1 point 2 points (+3|-1) ago 

Stop having your social gatherings in prison.

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[–] AngryNobody 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Men just like to get out more. Women only go out when its an obligation.

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[–] Fetnoidfloiddagroid ago 

Testosterone.

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[–] armday2day 1 point 0 points (+1|-1) ago 

Men and women have different interests. I'm sure if you had a hobby that most women enjoyed your viewpoint would be the inverse.

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[–] JonReed [S] 2 points -1 points (+1|-2) ago  (edited ago)

list things women are interested in then with concrete examples not "please invert whatever you're thinking (i don't know what it is though) then accept that as the reason why".

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[–] armday2day 1 point -1 points (+0|-1) ago 

I'm gonna make a huge assumption and guess that you're goal is to meet women.

It isn't going to do you any good for me to list things that women find interesting. First of all, you know some women, what do they like? Second of all, if you attend social gatherings that don't actually interest you, it's going to be obvious. You won't have any fun and all these women will sense it and avoid you as a result.

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[–] Guy_Justsome 0 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago 

The women that I know are way more invested in coronavirus fear porn than the men I know. Maybe it's generally true where you are, as well.

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[–] Haywood 1 point 5 points (+6|-1) ago 

Maybe you go to gatherings that women prefer not to go to.

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[–] JonReed [S] 3 points -2 points (+1|-3) ago  (edited ago)

a helpful response would have been a list of places where they actually are.

why is everyone responding to this post with "fuck you, you loser" responses? it this actually "how dare you say there's something a woman is doing that is not to your liking! they're perfect in every way!" because guys do think women are gods a lot of the time

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