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[–] Vhaine 2 points 10 points (+12|-2) ago  (edited ago)

Wanna watch nogball? Don’t expect the honeys to like up for that. A nice quiet day at the range? Dries the panties right up. Hitting the links? Say hello to the lesbian couple from NYC wearing size 18 matching Capri pants.

Men and women are different. To expect a women to enjoy the same social events is essentially asking her to think and act like a man. They don’t. Their choices of social engagements will be reflected in their attendance rates.

TLDR: your party is a sausage fest because women don’t like your type of parties. It’s kinda normal. Always has been.

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[–] JonReed [S] 5 points -3 points (+2|-5) ago 

your party is a sausage fest because women don’t like your type of parties. It’s kinda normal. Always has been.

I'm not talking about just parties. I didn't even specify events, but I did mean to cover this when I said "wide ranging types of people".

Your response is unhelpful and full of angst without apparent reason.

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[–] CapinBoredface 1 point -1 points (+0|-1) ago 

Where did you read angst? Lmao

He’s just saying that certain events attract certain people. Is it really that hard to imagine that you happen to go to mostly events that men are interested in?

I went to a Seether concert and it was mostly dudes. I went to a Coldplay concert and it was mostly chicks. Shocking.

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[–] eatorganic_gasemetic 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

Alright I get that but what about Warhammer 40K tabletop and ham radio conventions, they are super in-depth and there's lots of room for creativity with painting and fun ways to communicate which AFAIK chicks like so tell me where I've been going wrong you fucking moron

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[–] daskapitalist 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

LOL. HAM radio is interesting, but overwhelmingly older men. Warhammer 40k (or any game involving painting minis) is more likely to involve a real live space marine than a female.

They're both thing-focused, which are predominantly male activities. Person-focused tend to be more female heavy.

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[–] alacrity167 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

lmao!

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[–] BlackGrapeDrank 2 points 3 points (+5|-2) ago 

anything public is always/will always be like this.

I go to plenty of social activities where there is even ratios or even more women. the answer: they're all private events and invite only. successful alpha males, no losers, lots of women and their friends.

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[–] JonReed [S] 3 points -1 points (+2|-3) ago 

the answer: they're all private events and invite only. successful alpha males, no losers, lots of women and their friends.

I meant to cover this scenario when I said "wide ranging types of people", as I knew someone would blurt out this answer right away.

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[–] eatorganic_gasemetic 1 point 0 points (+1|-1) ago 

Lol he basically called u a loser

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[–] Haywood 1 point 5 points (+6|-1) ago 

Maybe you go to gatherings that women prefer not to go to.

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[–] JonReed [S] 3 points -2 points (+1|-3) ago  (edited ago)

a helpful response would have been a list of places where they actually are.

why is everyone responding to this post with "fuck you, you loser" responses? it this actually "how dare you say there's something a woman is doing that is not to your liking! they're perfect in every way!" because guys do think women are gods a lot of the time

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[–] Guy_Justsome 0 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago 

The women that I know are way more invested in coronavirus fear porn than the men I know. Maybe it's generally true where you are, as well.

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[–] spirit1977 1 point 2 points (+3|-1) ago 

Stop having your social gatherings in prison.

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[–] daskapitalist 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

I'll try to give you a serious response since based on your comments it sounds like you're asking this in good faith.

Women are typically less risk tolerant than men, and also far more focused on their social in-group than men who're typically more individualistic. This manifests in a couple of ways and leads to women often being found:

1) Clubbing with their BFFs. Do not waste your time on this. They're all young, dumb, looking for attention, and not looking for a relationship (think of it as the real world equivalent of instagram THOTs who just want likes without commitment).

2) Church. This tends to skew a bit older and more mature. If you're religious it's an option.

3) Already at home with babies. They're off the market and rarely leave the house for social gatherings because Little Timmy was never raised well enough to be taken out in public without flipping out within fifteen minutes.

4) At private social events. Being less risk tolerant than men, women are less likely to drop into a random event to make friends (whether that's a HAM radio meeting or a new cigar lounge). To gain access to these private events acquire some basic social skills if you dont already have them, pickup some approachable hobbies to talk about, and take up your friends' invitations to go do stuff. If you're an enjoyable conversationalist, those invitations tend to snowball. E.g. if I'm talking with new people I'll bring up some of my relatively approachable hobbies like winemaking, hiking, and ballroom dancing. Knowing what a space marine is or how to leverage temperature inversions to increase transmission range...not so much. At least not until you know they share a niche interest.

5) Staying at home with their cats and white wine wondering why they cant find no man. These typically get fat from inactivity in short order, and also comprise a hefty portion of the population.

6) At very girly activities. Girls day at the spa, yoga class, etc. Probably not your thing.

If your goal is to "get da gurls" rather than simple curiosity as to why your Warhammer 40k convention is a sausage fest, try the following:

1) Acquire some interesting hobbies that are relatively approachable.

2) The gym is now your part time job.

3) Take up friends on social invitations ("Hey, we're grilling out this weekend, want to come over?")

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[–] armday2day 1 point 0 points (+1|-1) ago 

Men and women have different interests. I'm sure if you had a hobby that most women enjoyed your viewpoint would be the inverse.

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[–] JonReed [S] 2 points -1 points (+1|-2) ago  (edited ago)

list things women are interested in then with concrete examples not "please invert whatever you're thinking (i don't know what it is though) then accept that as the reason why".

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[–] armday2day 1 point -1 points (+0|-1) ago 

I'm gonna make a huge assumption and guess that you're goal is to meet women.

It isn't going to do you any good for me to list things that women find interesting. First of all, you know some women, what do they like? Second of all, if you attend social gatherings that don't actually interest you, it's going to be obvious. You won't have any fun and all these women will sense it and avoid you as a result.

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[–] 25305594? ago 

I'm usually the only dude with 10 or more women.

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[–] JonReed [S] ago 

That's not really answering the post, but you might as well expand upon that and tell us more.

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[–] eatorganic_gasemetic ago 

Same here but double

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