You're lucky that you are even aware of your mistakes. I wasted about 2/3 of my life to this point and I've only recently come to realize how bad it sucks. When I was young, I had so much potential. But now I'm old and all I can do is make the best of the time I have left. And that's all any of us can do. The sooner we realize that, the better.
[–] fattyfatigue ago
At least you're young and have time to change things. Been divorced four years, am 43 now. It's harder to turn things around now, but it is amazing how much things have changed since then.
[–] PaulNeriAustralia 1 point -1 points 0 points (+0|-1) ago
there's only one thing you can do - move on and deal with the new reality. In short - sink or swim.
[–] DffrntDrmmr 1 point -1 points 0 points (+0|-1) ago
Just go day by day, you know, beating yourself up over and over again.
[–] awwisnotafarmpromise 1 point -1 points 0 points (+0|-1) ago
Cheap whiskey worked for decades.
Regret is among the stupidest indulgences. It adds nothing and only saps your energy. A net negative.
You can not change the past. Even if time travel were made possible in your lifetime, losers like you will not be given access, they probably won't even tell you it exists.
Rather than waste another minute on it, which includes taking part in this thread, go do something right god damn now to better your future.
[–] awwisnotafarmpromise 1 point -1 points 0 points (+0|-1) ago
How did I know you'd waste another minute on it?
Loser.
[–] thebearfromstartrack 2 points -2 points 0 points (+0|-2) ago
Hard to even tell what's really happening a lot of the time. What could have been? I'm pretty sure I am NOT the one in CONTROL of MY destiny in ANY significant way. I'm a nobody. I've lowered by expectations, which were IMPLANTED into me by "society" anyway.
I'm a genius, for ONE thing. I'm autistic too. I have a VERY different reality to yours. The POINT of Christianity is CHOOSE (good or evil). Free will is REQUIRED (that's why when you fall off a skyscraper, you SPLAT on the ground. IMMUTABLE law of PHYSICS). God LOVES his CREATION. He LOVES TRUTH. He HATES evil (LIES). YOUR destiny isn't what you WANT (paradise), it's what you CHOOSE (pleasure).
Quit being a retard. That is my advice to you. Do some pushups.
[–] VognerDuke76 ago
Learn to forgive yourself.
[–] PaulNeriAustralia 1 point -1 points 0 points (+0|-1) ago
what's the good of that if no one else forgives him?
[–] VognerDuke76 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
It's healing ground zero. It doesn't matter what everyone else thinks, because you have to live with yourself 24/7. People come and go.