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[–] ALIENS2222 ago  (edited ago)

I do it like this... I look in the mirror and gasp! It would be far FAR worse if I were a nigger... Whew! Boy am I glad I am not a nigger. Then I remember, since I have an IQ over 65, that I am living through a colossally difficult time when pretty much anything I would ever try to do will fail and anyone who I try to help or wake up will hate me and try to kill me for showing them the truth... so fuck it.

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[–] M346 ago 

I don't know about regret specifically but I can assure when you're happy you don't reflect on the past and wish something was done differently. So pursue the happiness and you'll lose that type of regret.

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[–] VognerDuke76 ago 

Learn to forgive yourself.

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[–] PaulNeriAustralia 1 point -1 points (+0|-1) ago 

what's the good of that if no one else forgives him?

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[–] VognerDuke76 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

It's healing ground zero. It doesn't matter what everyone else thinks, because you have to live with yourself 24/7. People come and go.

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[–] ADaniels ago 

looking back will turn you into stone, ask lot's wife.

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[–] ColdSteam 0 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago 

A lot of people might say to ignore it or whatever. That just pushes it deeper, and it'll keep piling up in the background. It's like pushing pingpong balls under the water, eventually you won't be able to keep em all down. Then you'll have a fuckin meltdown.

Better method: take the bull by the horns and wrestle that sumbitch to the ground. Just do it one thing at a time so you don't feel overwhelmed. It's work. So do the work.

Night time is the best time, no distractions and you have to face the beast.

Life is hard. Be harder. Take pride in surviving and enduring. Know that the weaker run, hide, and ignore.

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[–] Ashra 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Everyone definitely has regrets. One thing I try to remember: "is dwelling on and stressing about the past helping me?" I can't change the past, but I can change the present, and stressing is not helpful (it actually releases cortisol and is bad for your health). As others have said- LEARN from your past, and you are doing the greatest good you can for your future.

I always was sad that my siblings didn't end up staying with their "first loves"- but one of their ex's turned into a SJW that tries to ruin peoples reputation if they have wrong-think, and the other is pretty indoctrinated. There are blessings in disguise. Also, depending on you belief system- there is a consciousness that is beyond us that can see all possibilities- and is guiding us. It might be so difficult at the moment, but just keep going towards your intentions and you will get where you want, although the path may look different than you expect. Love to you friend, be kind to yourself.

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[–] EngelbertHumperdinck ago 

You're lucky that you are even aware of your mistakes. I wasted about 2/3 of my life to this point and I've only recently come to realize how bad it sucks. When I was young, I had so much potential. But now I'm old and all I can do is make the best of the time I have left. And that's all any of us can do. The sooner we realize that, the better.

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[–] NoseSubversion 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Follow Saint Tarrant.

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[–] IsaacJan [S] 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

Kek. You first pal.

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[–] NoseSubversion 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Why? So I can tell you I DON’T regret it? Lol!!

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