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[–] xWyld ago 

Work on building a great future. Later, when you reflect on your life path, you'll say "well I don't regret X because it started me down the path to where I am today, and I love where I am today." In the meantime, you will suffer. Try not to turn to anything too destructive to cope. Stay focused on your goals and on your future.

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[–] Ashra 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Everyone definitely has regrets. One thing I try to remember: "is dwelling on and stressing about the past helping me?" I can't change the past, but I can change the present, and stressing is not helpful (it actually releases cortisol and is bad for your health). As others have said- LEARN from your past, and you are doing the greatest good you can for your future.

I always was sad that my siblings didn't end up staying with their "first loves"- but one of their ex's turned into a SJW that tries to ruin peoples reputation if they have wrong-think, and the other is pretty indoctrinated. There are blessings in disguise. Also, depending on you belief system- there is a consciousness that is beyond us that can see all possibilities- and is guiding us. It might be so difficult at the moment, but just keep going towards your intentions and you will get where you want, although the path may look different than you expect. Love to you friend, be kind to yourself.

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[–] ardvarcus 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Regret is useless, except as a way to remind yourself not to do evil or stupid things in the future. But pain, fear and frustration are motivators. You can use them to energize yourself and push yourself beyond your limits. Look forward, not backward. You can't change the past, but you can change the future.

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[–] VognerDuke76 ago 

Learn to forgive yourself.

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[–] PaulNeriAustralia 1 point -1 points (+0|-1) ago 

what's the good of that if no one else forgives him?

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[–] VognerDuke76 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

It's healing ground zero. It doesn't matter what everyone else thinks, because you have to live with yourself 24/7. People come and go.

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[–] DffrntDrmmr 1 point -1 points (+0|-1) ago 

Just go day by day, you know, beating yourself up over and over again.

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[–] FireCrackLover ago 

Read or listen to some Eckhart Tolle. He will explain how your ego lives in the past and the future, and how it is not the real you.

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[–] AtroNotsAreGay 1 point -1 points (+0|-1) ago  (edited ago)

That toad looking FTM is full of shit. New-ageism is satanic.

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[–] MuricaPersonified ago 

You don't.

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[–] ADaniels ago 

looking back will turn you into stone, ask lot's wife.

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