[–] Eleutheria 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
I had the same thing happen with an ideological swing, to a lesser extent. I didn't really talk politics with my girlfriend for the first date or two, but knew she was at least 2A friendly because she's from the country and owns guns. At the one month mark, I find out she was right leaning, but mostly apolitical.
Last night, we were killing time by watching a TV show (which rarely happens), and she called out a racemixed couple before I did.
I don't even consider myself a good "leader", but over time I just calmly and rationally made my points. I didn't have to be as "on the nose" about it as I would with a more pressing issue like weight, but it worked. I could have just as easily said "Wow, I found someone, I need to tone it down and match her political bent so I don't scare her off". But that would have shown a complete lack of leadership, and she would have found a new "leader" somewhere in (((pop culture))).
[–] Y8goKTH959VCLKty8xIz 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Mine is still a land whale after three years. What’s ur trick?
[–] Voat_Has_Fallen 0 points 5 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago
"You are fat, if you are serious about a relationship with me you need to lose weight."
It will be harder after 3 years of cucking, but make it a deal breaker. Also, stop feeding her.
[–] Native [S] 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
Are you married?
If married it's harder.
If married, start lifting weights and get strong, she will notice when other women notice you.
If not married, be honest and have a sit down and talk to her about it and don't take anything but weightloss as an answer.
[–] Stubbabubba 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
This is what happened to my wife as well. We knew each other for a few years. We always hung around the same crowd and we're good friends. She liked me but she was over weight. I told her if she wanted to start dating she would have to start losing weight. I told her that if things got serious I didn't want to be with someone who was keeping themselves unhealthy.b she agreed and now we have a fucking cute son together. Be a man and lead
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[–] RURAL-TROOPER 2 points 6 points 8 points (+8|-2) ago
Put a ring on her and watch that ass grow.
[–] Native [S] 0 points 5 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago
I'm putting a ring on it and as long as I have twins I'll take the ass considering i'm not an ass man