[–] RevDrStrangelove 2 points 0 points 2 points (+2|-2) ago
They are 'true believers'. You aren't going to pummel them into acceptance. They have to change their minds on their own. High pressure tactics won't work. (do they ever?)
They need to be gently guided to a conclusion but they need to believe it was their own choice.
You gotta go real slow and easy.