[–] user654654 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
i have been trying to slowly convince my obese boss to start eating better in a similar way for a while. only eating healthy leftovers, talking about how inexpensive and easy chicken + roasted veg + rice is for dinner & lunch, driving home how much enjoyment i get from going to the gym for 4 hours a week and just lifting weights. he's got the "yeah but it's always been easy for you and staying healthy takes time" attitude so i try to drop little nuggets about how easy and inexpensive living clean really is into daily conversation. his main problem is borderline alcoholism, though, and until you stop getting shitcanned and ordering papa john's every night, not much is going to help.
[–] Rockfish1000 [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
That's cool. Maybe he'll come around. Some times people just need a real life example to emulate.
[–] user654654 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
i think it's important for people to see that no, it's not magic, but no, it's not that difficult, either. ignore the blackpills; everywhere i've worked i've more or less tried to subtly change the fatties' habits with about a 40 % success rate. honestly worth it.
[–] Ialwaysorderpizza 1 point 0 points 1 point (+1|-1) ago
Fuck her, she’s a fatty. Don’t engage her until she is human size.
[–] Carsandsarcasm 0 points 9 points 9 points (+9|-0) ago
A lot of black pills in the comments for a white pill post. As long as you're not taking this too seriously, and you're not, I bet it is refreshing to actually have someone move towards sanity for once. I have never been a fan of conversation, but these days it's at the point where I dread what kind of unhinged insanity is going to be casually expressed by some NPC. I would love to her that someone has come to a rational conclusion for once.
[–] rshackleford252525 1 point 1 point 2 points (+2|-1) ago
absolutely naive... she could have just asked him what he eats every day... doesn't have to follow him to a restaurant to see it with her own eyes...
give it 2 weeks before the ulterior motive comes to light
[–] Rockfish1000 [S] 0 points 4 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago
Yeah. I don't blame the people throwing black pills in here. There's some legit reasons for it. But yeah. I'm not taking it seriously at all. She's a good kid who is doing more action than talk in trying to improve herself. It is such a rarity to see (and let's be honest, this could be very short lived), that it is a good feeling to witness. Even if it does then turn out to be a temporary thing and she has a cake relapse, it's still now sweat off my brow. It's no lose for me.
[–] Carsandsarcasm 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
I'm seeing a lot of jumping to conclusions. I'm not seeing anyone deny the possibility that she could have other intentions, but coworkers also just go to lunch and chat sometimes.
[–] rshackleford252525 7 points 3 points 10 points (+10|-7) ago (edited ago)
i know youre excited that a girl talked to you... but this woman is having issues at home and has you first in line to be the beta raising (paying for) her 2 kids
cut this bitch loose
never date a fat, single mother, or drug addict... you're knowingly doing 2 of 3
[–] Ghostman_Loon 1 point 0 points 1 point (+1|-1) ago
Holy fuck! This is some outta-nowhere r/niceguys type shit here, Someone ought to check your flair.
[–] rshackleford252525 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
says the person that has no flair
[–] Rockfish1000 [S] 2 points 11 points 13 points (+13|-2) ago
I'm doing none of those things, idiot.
[–] rshackleford252525 1 point 0 points 1 point (+1|-1) ago
jeez you were so nice in your last response and so mean in this one
[–] LostWhiteSoul 1 point 1 point 2 points (+2|-1) ago
That's encouraging, let's hope it rubs off on some of her cohorts. I've always thought that being a heffalump is a non sustaining lifestyle. They're going to implode eventually, without even trying. When you can't even get up to walk to the fridge then you're in trouble.
[–] Rockfish1000 [S] 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
I don't know about that. I can see why ya might think that, but I never got that kinda vibe off of her. She will be let down gently if it happens.
[–] journalistsarelazy 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
There’s really not much fat hate here tbh