[–] 21477405? 0 points 5 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago
My wife and I are good a splitting chores. I do the guy stuff. She does the gal stuff.
I insist that we both put the lid down on the toilet when we are finished with it - a good habit when you have dogs who could drink out of the toilet bowl if you don't, and makes the bathroom just that tiny bit tiddier. Turns out that women can learn to operate the toilet seat ;)
[–] 21478394? [S] 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago (edited ago)
It is a part of the de-population agenda. To do it they must turn Men and Women against each other. Break up the family unit. Disrupt human reproduction. Promote abortion.
Do you see where I am going with this?
Women being weaponized against Men. Men being feminized, and Women being hyper feminized. <
Deliberate.
[–] 21479281? 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago (edited ago)
I was just staring at a "we can do it" poster out in public today, thinking, well gosh damn, this right here was the brainwashing operation to get women thinking they WANTED to be in the workforce. I don't! My husband believes the female species is on many levels, not fit to be in the workforce like a man, without coming home cranky & ruining relationships, and I agree. It's not natural. We aren't men. We aren't (generally speaking) good at schmoozing, ball busting, etc. Many women want to be a home maker, but it's literally impossible on one income. When females entered the workforce, mortgages went up to include two incomes instead of one. That right there ruined it all. The Bible says for women to RESPECT their husbands, and for husbands to LOVE their wives. Really think about that. That means that naturally speaking, women don't have a hard time loving their husbands, but they do have a hard time respecting. It means naturally speaking, men don't have a hard time respecting their wives, but do have a hard time LOVING their wives. There's a reason wives are naggy & unhappy, they need to feel emotionally loved. There's a reason men are tired & burned out & shut down, they need to feel respected.
[–] 21479395? [S] ago (edited ago)
Wow.
That's beautiful. I wasn't respected, and she could not show her love, and could not communicate like a normal, sane person without getting angry and/or very violent.
She bashed me several times, in front of very young kids too, who were terrified. Messed me up badly.
Nothing I could do about it.
Nobody cared, and Cops and Doctors discouraged me from reporting her, or they blamed me.
So I just shut my mouth and took it in slience.
Then she conspired with her Mother, to break up a 24 year relstionship, and take the kids and all my money.
I was truly in love with her, she was just a miserable person, conceited and envious of others. Sick. <
Thanks.
Take care.
xo
[–] 21478567? 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Holy shit what a coincidence. 2 days ago, my brother called me on the phone. He is going to divorce his wife of 10 years. They have 2 great kids but he can't take it anymore. She doesn't clean the house, it's a mess. She fights with him about absolutely everything. She withholds sex from him (3 times a year). He works at a hospital 6 days a week at 12 hour shifts and comes home to a filthy house. He drinks himself stupid to escape from the stress she brings upon him. I am both happy and sad for him. It's always a shame when the nuclear family is broken. I too am divorced and I know how liberated he feels now to make the decision to end an abusive and controlling relationship.
Speaking for myself, anyone looking from the outside would have thought I had everything under control. I was a 250lb bodybuilder and my sociopath of an ex-wife was a bikini competitor. She controlled everything about me behind closed doors. I was too young to know any better. She emasculated me at every turn and I just thought "this is normal." But it wasn't normal. All the signs of a bad relationship were there but I didn't see them. Chalk it up to immaturity and ignorance. I don't regret the relationship even though she absolutely left a wake of destruction in her path including throwing me in jail for a night and dragging me through court for something I didn't do. That's how vindictive and insane this woman was. She taught me more about myself than anyone ever has. I found my courage and regained my masculinity. I knew exactly what I wanted in a wife and I found her. I've been happily married for over 5 years now and we have never once argued. Common ground and compatibility is key. You are correct, I was partly to blame for my past relationship.
[–] 21479092? 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
I'm a woman and I agree with you. My man only takes out the garbage. He really works way too much and physically to have to do anything else. In the real world, you can't just go home and sit on your butt, but if you're working 12-14 hour days that's all you can do. The person working 8 hours though can go home and do an hour of work. That's how I did it when I lived alone.
[–] 21479169? [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago (edited ago)
Look. I LOVE Women.
I was brought up right, by good strong Women. I have great respect.
This Woman took advantage, never loved me, and fucked off. But then she had the hyde to take my kids away for NOTHING, damaging the kids, and also wanting shit loads of money after the fact, while all the while trying to weaken and destroy me. For what? [REVENGE].
This is becoming a common story.
Where did love, respect, compassion and team work go in relationships?
Peace. God bless you. ✌️❤️
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[–] 21478150? [S] ago
It's fine. Embrace your pain: It makes you who you are. It means you're alive. <
Hug received. Right back atcha Fren. >