[–] KurayaminoKai ago
Both. If I have androphobia (fear of men) I'd seek therapy. I'd also avoid places like pool shower rooms.
Similarly, if I find ill-disciplined children annoying, store employees rude, and wonder why I need to physically visit stores in 2015 to find out if they stock certain products, you can bet that I don't enjoy a jaunt to my local grocery store.