[–] X____sign_here____ 0 points 6 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago
Get used to it. There is lots of rejection to come. There's nothing you can do about it so you just have to accept it and let it slide off your back.
[–] markrod420 0 points 4 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago (edited ago)
Your TLDR hit the nail on the head. You care to much. The less you care the easier it becomes. The most success i had with picking up women was when i was heartbroken and they meant nothing to me. Thats not a healthy way to start a real relationship. But a less extreme version of that might bring you success. Literally before every action or response involving a women think "wait how would i handle this if i didnt care". Dont do EXACTLY what u would if u didnt care. Just adjust ur actions to be closer to that.
[–] Darkeyedone 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago (edited ago)
OK, so... Female who had lots of awkward male friends who had the same problem here.
1) Be good with who you are.
2) Know that most relationships at your age end all the same way: break up.
3) Relax. You don't have to have another person to be happy. Rejection sucks, but being with someone because you don't want to be alone is worse.
4) You are single. You aren't spending money on somebody else, dude! Upside, anyone?
5) Seriously, your time will come. Don't give up, but don't obsess. Everybody goes through the rejection phase unless they are extremely good looking or have money flying out their butts. It will get better, then worse. You will have your heart broken and you will do the breaking.
Just look at it as leveling up. Gain more Experience Points and reach that next level. So, your princess is in another castle. Are you Toad or Mario? You have to go through it all to be ready for your one. Don't worry. It will happen. Just relax and enjoy your time.
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[–] BloodPool 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
I wanted my wife to chime in on this (As I couldn't think of a solution and wanted a female perspective), so I got her opinion: "Focus on being a good person and focus on being happy with who you are. That positivity will be obvious and attractive to females who are worth the effort." I thought she gave a more apt response than one I could give.
[–] an_instance 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
The hard truth is you just have to go through more rejection. At first it seems like the end of the world, but as you go through more you'll realize it just sucks like a lot of other things suck. Also understand that emotions are not constant states and they often have no basis in rationality. What seems earth-shattering now will be just another bump on the road in a month or two. Knowing this doesn't help you emotionally, but intellectually it helps to know that you won't always feel this way.
[–] noscale 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
Quick trying to fuck and try to just have friends that are girls.
Learn how to hang out with members of the opposite sex and what they like and are interested in. You will be more comfortable around girls then use this comfort to hit on girls you meet that won;t ruin your social circle. Meet girls from other schools or at other events don't date girls you are friends with. Join clubs and participate in activities meet people and try to actually give a shit about them rather then what you can get from them.
This is all stock advice I know nothing about you so I made it as general as possible.
[–] Tyrone_Lannister [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Ok, I didn't realise I sounded that thirsty when I posted but thanks mate :)
[–] Whothat 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
Cultivate yourself, be a better person. You are 16 years old, shouldn't you put more efforts on school, hobbies, and sports rather than procreate ? You also should do some introspection, do you really want to be her boyfriend or you just want to get your dick wet ? Girls can sense creepiness from miles way.
[–] piquedinterest 0 points 12 points 12 points (+12|-0) ago
Stop trying too hard. Get a hobby that's not obsessing about getting a GF. Relax and it will come