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[–] markrod420 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Your TLDR hit the nail on the head. You care to much. The less you care the easier it becomes. The most success i had with picking up women was when i was heartbroken and they meant nothing to me. Thats not a healthy way to start a real relationship. But a less extreme version of that might bring you success. Literally before every action or response involving a women think "wait how would i handle this if i didnt care". Dont do EXACTLY what u would if u didnt care. Just adjust ur actions to be closer to that.

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[–] BIackTuesday 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

How many times have you been rejected?

Think of that number and remember you'll continued to get rejected in one way or another for the rest of your life. Also, you're sixteen and when you look back at 18, 20, 25, etc. you will realize how little a rejection meant in high school.

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[–] piquedinterest 0 points 12 points (+12|-0) ago 

Stop trying too hard. Get a hobby that's not obsessing about getting a GF. Relax and it will come

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[–] turd_miner91 1 point 2 points (+3|-1) ago 

Don't care so much by having self validation and real, secure, self confidence. When you accept yourself y don't need others to do it for you and their opinions and rejections mean a lot less. Do esteemable things to gain self esteem.

Probably not exactly the answer you were looking for but there ya go.

Also, your hormones will settle down in a few years and rejection won't taste so bad. The teens can be tough in that regard.

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[–] Whothat 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

Cultivate yourself, be a better person. You are 16 years old, shouldn't you put more efforts on school, hobbies, and sports rather than procreate ? You also should do some introspection, do you really want to be her boyfriend or you just want to get your dick wet ? Girls can sense creepiness from miles way.

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[–] noscale 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

Quick trying to fuck and try to just have friends that are girls.

Learn how to hang out with members of the opposite sex and what they like and are interested in. You will be more comfortable around girls then use this comfort to hit on girls you meet that won;t ruin your social circle. Meet girls from other schools or at other events don't date girls you are friends with. Join clubs and participate in activities meet people and try to actually give a shit about them rather then what you can get from them.

This is all stock advice I know nothing about you so I made it as general as possible.

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[–] Tyrone_Lannister [S] 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Ok, I didn't realise I sounded that thirsty when I posted but thanks mate :)

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[–] an_instance 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

The hard truth is you just have to go through more rejection. At first it seems like the end of the world, but as you go through more you'll realize it just sucks like a lot of other things suck. Also understand that emotions are not constant states and they often have no basis in rationality. What seems earth-shattering now will be just another bump on the road in a month or two. Knowing this doesn't help you emotionally, but intellectually it helps to know that you won't always feel this way.

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[–] Tyrone_Lannister [S] 1 point -1 points (+0|-1) ago 

Thanks

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[–] X____sign_here____ 0 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago 

Get used to it. There is lots of rejection to come. There's nothing you can do about it so you just have to accept it and let it slide off your back.

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