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[–] turd_miner91 1 point 2 points (+3|-1) ago 

Don't care so much by having self validation and real, secure, self confidence. When you accept yourself y don't need others to do it for you and their opinions and rejections mean a lot less. Do esteemable things to gain self esteem.

Probably not exactly the answer you were looking for but there ya go.

Also, your hormones will settle down in a few years and rejection won't taste so bad. The teens can be tough in that regard.

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[–] piquedinterest 0 points 12 points (+12|-0) ago 

Stop trying too hard. Get a hobby that's not obsessing about getting a GF. Relax and it will come

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[–] BIackTuesday 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

How many times have you been rejected?

Think of that number and remember you'll continued to get rejected in one way or another for the rest of your life. Also, you're sixteen and when you look back at 18, 20, 25, etc. you will realize how little a rejection meant in high school.

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[–] markrod420 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Your TLDR hit the nail on the head. You care to much. The less you care the easier it becomes. The most success i had with picking up women was when i was heartbroken and they meant nothing to me. Thats not a healthy way to start a real relationship. But a less extreme version of that might bring you success. Literally before every action or response involving a women think "wait how would i handle this if i didnt care". Dont do EXACTLY what u would if u didnt care. Just adjust ur actions to be closer to that.