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[–] Saltyhymen 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
I'll bet she looks at things a little differently on the next time around.
[–] user9713 0 points 9 points 9 points (+9|-0) ago (edited ago)
Keep in contact with her (but don't be a bother, either). See how she's doing, talk about your shared interests, ask her how her life is, what did she do over the weekend, ask her for thoughts / advice on something, offer to help with anything (pay attention for clues), etc.
Continue building on the relationship. Remember, the goal is to be her friend, while maintaining the Aunt / Niece hierarchy, so that she will look up to you and want to be like you when she grows up.
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[–] voatuser1128 ago
To be honest I dont think you should have offered to let her go home early but backed off, bond a bit (maybe do some fun bonding activities) and then try to redpill her a little at a time.
[–] AR47 1 point 1 point 2 points (+2|-1) ago
Admission of your mistakes is what will ultimately lead you to being a better role model for her and your own children.
I make mistakes all the time with my boy, and it is usually by me giving my own ideas on a subject, and not letting him decide for himself what the world is to him.
Recently had the trans-gender talk with him and while I don’t approve of the lifestyle I can’t just imprint my own ideas.
For him to take hold of what I feel he must come to the idea himself.
Least this topic was easy.
Dad I don’t think I could ever be gay.....
Why not?
Because boobies are awesome dad!
[–] CognitiveDissident5 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
Don't be too hard on yourself. Thanks for what you shared here. I followed every update.
[–] callthehambulance 0 points 9 points 9 points (+9|-0) ago
But she's also wanting to stick with the fitness regime and sugar detox. That's a huge thing, especially seeing as how she actively wants to do so.
[–] Lord0Trade 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
I say you did pretty well. It's difficult to break someone out of the bubble that is leftist ideology.