She thinks she has an STD and she is freaking out? because either she will have to confess to getting an STD or, more likely, she thinks you gave it to her? Doctors love to encourage people to get an STD test because a lot of spouses just cannot imagine the need but doctors can imagine. Maybe she has something going on and so the doctor suggested to get an STD test and she got worked up and thought that she'd mention it to you so that you would immediately demonstrate your innocence with your reaction? I would like to offer support but it's not clear what's going on. It's not clear why you are upset unless it is because she is freaking out. There is general advice for women freaking out. Imagine the end of grandma's temper tantrum. Grampa empathizes, frowns, vaguely agrees, makes coffee with two sugars, listens some more. When he hears the shift in her voice, he makes a terrible suggestion and she glares until she realizes he is teasing her. She protests. This is serious. But it is too late. Grampa won. There is a curl on the corner of her mouth. This won't work so well if you did something she is mad about. It will work if she did something you ought to be mad about. If she did something you ought to be mad about, you know what to do. Forgive her and take her to bed. When women need forgiveness, they tend to accuse and act a fool so you have no idea what's going on. Respectful contrition and accountability are a bit scarce. Anything useful?
These are difficult times. The very planet is juiced up (shuman resonance) and the astrologists say that the eclipse energy is messing everyone up until July 28 and the magnetic field that protects the planet is weakening. If you believe any of that or anything else, try to remember that there is a correlation between the big picture and the personal picture.
Until you are ready to change forms, time goes one direction. You can speed it up (but that wastes your life) or leave it the same speed but cram way more into the moments.
Being married for a long time is a thing. Well done.
[–] 19843298? 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago (edited ago)
Never interrupt your enemy whilst he is making a mistake.
Napoleon
Never ascribe to conspiracy, that which can better be explained as stupidity
Napoleon
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Is this code for something or are you genuinely asking us how to deal with your wife having an std?
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She thinks she has an STD and she is freaking out? because either she will have to confess to getting an STD or, more likely, she thinks you gave it to her? Doctors love to encourage people to get an STD test because a lot of spouses just cannot imagine the need but doctors can imagine. Maybe she has something going on and so the doctor suggested to get an STD test and she got worked up and thought that she'd mention it to you so that you would immediately demonstrate your innocence with your reaction? I would like to offer support but it's not clear what's going on. It's not clear why you are upset unless it is because she is freaking out. There is general advice for women freaking out. Imagine the end of grandma's temper tantrum. Grampa empathizes, frowns, vaguely agrees, makes coffee with two sugars, listens some more. When he hears the shift in her voice, he makes a terrible suggestion and she glares until she realizes he is teasing her. She protests. This is serious. But it is too late. Grampa won. There is a curl on the corner of her mouth. This won't work so well if you did something she is mad about. It will work if she did something you ought to be mad about. If she did something you ought to be mad about, you know what to do. Forgive her and take her to bed. When women need forgiveness, they tend to accuse and act a fool so you have no idea what's going on. Respectful contrition and accountability are a bit scarce. Anything useful?
These are difficult times. The very planet is juiced up (shuman resonance) and the astrologists say that the eclipse energy is messing everyone up until July 28 and the magnetic field that protects the planet is weakening. If you believe any of that or anything else, try to remember that there is a correlation between the big picture and the personal picture.
Until you are ready to change forms, time goes one direction. You can speed it up (but that wastes your life) or leave it the same speed but cram way more into the moments.
Being married for a long time is a thing. Well done.