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[–] SurfinMindWaves 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

I can't speak to the statistics. I just know that my brother is as close to perfect as anyone I've met. He goes to church every week and actually lives in line with that. He's worked hard, provided for his family, and did everything he could to instill a moral compass into his girls. He has a daughter that exclusively dates black men, and no matter what anyone has warned her about she continues to do so. I honestly can't detect how he has failed in this situation except being unable to identify the magical button to push to detour bad life choices.

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[–] 0fsgivin 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Does his wife support her dating black men?

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[–] SurfinMindWaves ago 

No, but I've not asked her for specifics about what she has said to her about it.

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[–] worthlesshope 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Probably rebellion.. combined with learning from her peers. I'm more of the belief that kids don't really learn from their family, but learn from their community. If their community doesn't respect family then they wont respect family, she also probably got the idea in her head to really show how much she hates how she grew up she will date black men to piss off her parents. With her parents continuing to be "against" the idea only proves that she was right. Eventually it becomes like a fetish.

If she's still a teen probably the best option for her is to move to an exclusively white area, with white peers who she can see as role models. But the other problem which can't be solved is media, luckily she sounds like an idiot so it might be easy to control what type of media she sees as well.

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[–] fishmantis ago 

You can be a good, kind, hardworking man that loves his family and does everything for them, but that doesn't mean they will respect you. Does his wife respect him, or is it an "equal" relationship?

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[–] SurfinMindWaves ago 

That's hard to judge since couples tend to be different in public than at home. They are both hardcore bible believers though so I think ultimately she is "submissive" to him. I've learned over the years (the hard way) that people are rarely what they appear to be on the surface.