[–] 0fsgivin 0 points 10 points 10 points (+10|-0) ago (edited ago)
MAYBE one or two of those girls had a good father and she turned out a whore. The others no the father is to blame.
I've had white trash say this as well. "It's not my fault the kid just wouldn't listen". Very few fucking kids are born fucked up. 5% IF THAT. Really like 2 or 3% have just natural severe emotional or intelligence issues.
[–] SurfinMindWaves 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
I can't speak to the statistics. I just know that my brother is as close to perfect as anyone I've met. He goes to church every week and actually lives in line with that. He's worked hard, provided for his family, and did everything he could to instill a moral compass into his girls. He has a daughter that exclusively dates black men, and no matter what anyone has warned her about she continues to do so. I honestly can't detect how he has failed in this situation except being unable to identify the magical button to push to detour bad life choices.
[–] fishmantis ago
You can be a good, kind, hardworking man that loves his family and does everything for them, but that doesn't mean they will respect you. Does his wife respect him, or is it an "equal" relationship?
[–] worthlesshope 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Probably rebellion.. combined with learning from her peers. I'm more of the belief that kids don't really learn from their family, but learn from their community. If their community doesn't respect family then they wont respect family, she also probably got the idea in her head to really show how much she hates how she grew up she will date black men to piss off her parents. With her parents continuing to be "against" the idea only proves that she was right. Eventually it becomes like a fetish.
If she's still a teen probably the best option for her is to move to an exclusively white area, with white peers who she can see as role models. But the other problem which can't be solved is media, luckily she sounds like an idiot so it might be easy to control what type of media she sees as well.
[–] 0fsgivin 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Does his wife support her dating black men?