[–] ehhh 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
Sorry about your social anxiety. I have it too. I'm proud of you, if that's not too strange to say. I know this subverse is a good place to let off steam about fat people, but what I really like about your story is that it wasn't the unabashedly antagonistic tone we have a lot here (not saying it's a bad thing!). 13 year-old you had a great deal of compassion for people who are truly suffering, and you were able to stick by it when faced with hurt fee-fees. The fatty tried to make you take it back, they tried to make it (like everything else) about them, but you didn't let them. Having compassion for starving children doesn't just mean shedding the occasional tear; it means taking care of your own body, being grateful for the nutrition you have access to, and being careful not to take in too much.
[–] culofiesta 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
That was an example of social conditioning in children. Adults pushing their bullshit rules on children. Children can see that being fat is wrong but adults tell everyone that you're not supposed to talk about it.
You shouldn't have gotten kicked out. Like the post on here yesterday that talked about his wife telling his son to go to his room for mentioning that someone is fat, we should encourage more honest shitlording in children. Adults already tiptoe around it. We can't let that shit bleed into another generation.
[–] wolfgirlnaya 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
I fucking hate the restrictions put on children to watch who they upset. Especially when they're under the supervision of a sympathizer. I just hope my kids get sent home one day with a letter from the school asking me to come in and talk about their behavior towards fat teachers. God, that would be glorious.
[–] ThisIsAnApplePancake 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
They removed you for it? Fucked up. I said a number of fucked up things while I was in Boy Scouts and never once got even a reprimand... Gotta love insular organizations that aren't PC. Am I right?
[–] Itsforhismum 0 points 5 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago (edited ago)
they really expect you to say no youre not fat wtf. Once i hooked up with a girl at a club. We did share the cab together with her Cousin who was a fat bitch that all of a sudden started to cry because nobody wants her because she is fat. So drunk me is even worse than sober me so no filter at all asks her when it makes her so sad why the fuck doesnt she loose weight ...30 mins of awkwardness later still fucked her Cousin and had a good laugh with her after the landwhale left the cab !
[–] FPHrefugee 0 points 5 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago
I also got kicked out of girl scouts for for telling bloody mary at a camp trip...most of the girls didn't sleep lol.
[–] FPHrefugee 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
lol. My sister told me the story and I had to pass it along. It's probably because I was actually in Brownies...those little girls scared easy, I was much tougher lol
[–] Phillyshitlord 0 points 7 points 7 points (+7|-0) ago
I can. I'm also making the assumptiong that Fatty-who-spoke-up wasn't the only fatty there.
[–] geddy 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
It gets easier with time, trust me.