[–] SIayfire122 0 points 5 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago
My grandmother was very oldschool. She would redo her makeup and put on something nice just to go to the grocery store, even after my grandfather passed away. She also kept a pot of perpetual stew on the back burner for hungry children.
Sexy, yet modest nightgown. Guys. She likes looking sexy. You like it when she looks sexy. Buy her sexy stuff. Maybe something like this too.
Never let your husband see you completely naked.
I'd like to change this to almost never. If you're having some fun in bed, there's nothing wrong with wearing absolutely nothing. Similarly, wearing a towel when you come out of the bathroom gives him a visual tease, but there's nothing wrong with dropping the towel right before you put on underwear, giving him a couple seconds of the full visual appeal.
Don't lose your figure and lose the baby weight.
Of course you only have so much control over your weight while pregnant, but you shouldn't use this as an excuse to let yourself waste away. A person can gain a lot of excess weight over 6 months or so. Two of my sisters were lucky and remained thin with a basketball belly. The third had more trouble, which was only compounded by being pregnant more frequently than the other two.
It's also worth noting that you might have an extra 5lbs from having more blood and bigger boobs. You should be able to get within 10 pounds over time with little effort, but that last 5 pounds might give you trouble should you still be storing extra fat in your boobs and carrying the extra blood.
[–] CrustyBeaver52 0 points 4 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago
When Voat gets rich you should be endowed an academy.
[–] CrustyBeaver52 0 points 4 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago
I can think of no one better qualified.
[–] Maltherian1 1 point 1 point 2 points (+2|-1) ago
I cracked up at cheese making. Cheese is the one food I have no self control around. If my girlfriend made great cheese I would be screwed. Goodbye six pack. Hello keg
[–] fightknightHERO 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Silk robes is spot on, a woman can garb jerself in the most raunchy attire possible and still it won't be as alluring as a traditional silk robe...
[–] ReformedFeminist 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
You are so lucky your mother taught you these things! I'd send my daughter to your finishing school in a heartbeat. Have you considered writing a homeschool curriculum or book?
Also, pee after sex. Prevents UTIs.
[–] 18680191? 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
@empress you my gd gem of a person. It is not called red pilling. Yet, your post helps me appreciate and be able to approach my wife in means with an objective to understand what men want. No not full out 50's pamphlet shit. Yet, a lot of theses details go by the way side of how to make relationships work.
[–] 18689476? [S] 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
Have you taken the subtle approach yet by telling her to go take a shower so y'all can have sexy time?
Some questions I have: Is it a hygiene issue? Does she shower regularly? If so, it's not a hygiene issue but a vaginal health issue.
For Vaginal Health
Bacterial Vaginosis and Yeast Infections are very common. Medical Drs prescribe drugs but the infections tend to come right back because the symptom is being treated, not the cause. What I do to keep my vagina in tip top condition is add a drop of this along with a drop of Iodine in a pint of water first thing in the morning. As @Le_Squish mentioned, pH imbalanced vaginas can be treated effectively by regularly eating fermented foods which are exceedingly simple to make at home.
How I would want to be told by my husband would be a concern question. Something like, "honey, is your pH ok? It smells stronger than usual". I also like people to be very straight forward with me so I'm not sure how that would work on your wife. @Le_Squish is very good with these types of issues and may have some insight.
You can always make her an account and subscribe her here. Squish and I would happily make a Vaginal Health post if you'd think it would help.
[–] ALIENS2222 1 point 11 points 12 points (+12|-1) ago
Clone yourself... Millions and millions of times. -Every man ever. ARE YOU LISTENING LADIES???
[–] 18691860? [S] 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
Just because I know the right thing to do, doesn't mean I always do it. I make mistakes and am plenty flawed. I can be moody, irritable, and too serious at times. I'm just a woman in the world that's trying to be a slightly better version of myself than yesterday, because yesterday I wasn't a peach to live with ;)