[–] Eualos 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago (edited ago)
4 if you must. Be patient and have standards. Keep working on yourself. Long term relationships where children are involved are not things to undertake lightly.
Alternatives, she makes you happy. That's not something you should ignore. You only have one life to live. Don't waste it by being miserable. Make lots of white babies and raise them to not end up like this woman.
[–] Maltherian1 0 points 10 points 10 points (+10|-0) ago
Abandon ship. Do not wait another minute. The very last thing you want to do is knock her up. Women are attracted to confidence. Love and believe in yourself and a good one will come your way
[–] 18633382? 0 points 4 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago
Dude, run. Fuck that. Get in good shape and pick up a young chick. She's 37. If she gets preggo chances are good you're going to have a downie. Get in shape, get a house, and get an early 20something then have like 5+ kids. it's already game over for her man. Imagine having to care for a special needs kid for the rest of your life with her damaged and weathered ass because you were too lazy to finish what you started in the gym.
[–] DIY-Guy 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
I wouldn't waste my time and pretend personally. I can always start a fund raiser for a hat to as well if it's due to the fact that you can't afford one with 5 to as well.
so many red flags here, but I'd go with time alone personally if you want it that badly and want to stay with her / be in her life that badly. Just let it play out over time.
Time can either tip the scales in your favor or tip the scales in something else.
IDK personally. This is really strange.
[–] ScottRockview 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
Cut her off, don't even friendzone. If she see you getting more fit and improving yourself, she WILL sabotage your chances at a different girl. She is used to getting men that she wants and won't handle one getting away from her. Let's say she has only had 25 different dicks in her, do you want to be 26th? You're not 15 anymore and don't need to fuck anything that moves.
[–] TheBuddha 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Stick it in her pooper!